Which are the best qualities that one man must have to impress the women?
By Pinoer
@Pinoer (69)
Bulgaria
March 10, 2011 5:01am CST
I am a very good person and I know how to be a real gentleman too, but most of my friends are rude and succesfull with women at the same time. Am I right to think that kindness is very important or I am in rong position and have to be more rude with girls? Why such gentle boy like me can not impress the girls much, but the rude boys can?
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@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
10 Mar 11
Well this question differs according to the person i guess. Me, i like guys with good sense of humor and has to be a good person too. i think your friends change themselves into a real gentleman in front of girls, that is why girls are falling for them. I like good guys, if any guy acts rude with me, that will never attract me :/ So be who you are. You will find the perfect girl for you sooner or later. Good luck^^
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@livecenter (1136)
• Malaysia
10 Mar 11
Typical answer, or rather 'safe' response 
...I believe most (or rather all) girls in this world love a real gentleman with good appearance and attitude...They need someone who can care for them, and respect them in every possible way...I believe a man should be who they are - never cheat a girl about your attitude or you will pay for it, severely...
...I believe most (or rather all) girls in this world love a real gentleman with good appearance and attitude...They need someone who can care for them, and respect them in every possible way...I believe a man should be who they are - never cheat a girl about your attitude or you will pay for it, severely...@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
12 Mar 11
Maybe there are, but I've not seen girls attracted by rude guys around me. And actually I don't really care about the appearance, it's the personality but a good sense of humor is a plus point though. My ex-bf with whom i feel deeply in love with was the same as i describe here. My friends used to say he wasn't good looking though. The kind of guy he was, made him the handsomest guy in my eyes.
@livecenter (1136)
• Malaysia
10 Mar 11
To be frank, I am a man and I am in your shoes as well...I have some problems when it comes to girls...I mixed with them well, but to get the relationship to the next level is what bothering me most now...I seem to not be able to do that, and sometimes I feel inferior upon seeing my friends with their girlfriends...But as for me, I don't really care now...Kindness is very important, and to have that is very good quality...Don't really care about your friends...Every dog has its day, and I believe you will have one too ...I hope the same with myself as well...
...I hope the same with myself as well...
@edb225112 (124)
• United States
10 Mar 11
Biology is against the kind and gentle in the desire to impress the girls. Girls are looking for the best provider (as seen as the strongest and most dominate boy in the group.) The rude boy is seen to be the one who has power in the group, hence the girls are genetically more interested. Mostly, they don't know exactly why they are doing that but that is what is happening. In time, kindness will be rewarded. You sound like you are young. By the time you are in college, you will find girls who are looking for the kind of man you are. I know it is hard to wait, but it will be worth it.
