Love or sacrifice
@Princelierocks (817)
India
March 12, 2011 1:06pm CST
Hiee everybody there i have a problem regarding a relationship.. iam currently in a relationship with a gir. Since past few months there were lots of twists but we managed to stay together in love and we have passed one year successfully . She had an boyfriend earlier relation of 5 years but due to some misunderstandings and other personal reasons their relationship could not move further. My girlfriend has told me each and everything which i appreciate the truth from her most.. The problem is that he has felt sorry for what he has done and is ready to forget everything and start a new relationship he is begging for her forgiveness.. she has forgiven him but she says we cant continue cause iam in her life now. what matters to me the most is she iam i doing the right things of staying with her.. i seriously cant live without her and she too is the same with me. am i falling in between in someone's love or, was it jus not for me iam confused.. we are very happy together but her exboyfriend is coming in between which i feel piety he had an chance earlier but now he is regretting for what he has done.. iam a lot confused plz suggest me some solutions....??
7 responses
@kh_rabbe (195)
• Bangladesh
13 Mar 11
I think you should stick with her. If she really love you than believe her. Always support her love. It will help her a lot to chose you everytime. Past is past. May be it will hurt your relation but you two stick together and believe each other than your relation will stay long as much as you want. So best of luck!
@deriellevc73 (982)
• Philippines
13 Mar 11
hello prince!
All is fair in love and war. Whatever chance that other guy had with your girlfriend, he had already blown it off. It's your time now, and since you both love each other, fight for that love and hold on to her. He had his time, it's now yours and don't even think that it is gentlemanly to give her up because you think that's a good thing to do. If you think that she loves him, well that would be another story. But you said that she loves you now and is not really keen on hooking up with that other guy. Love her the way you best know how and don't mind the other guy.
@Princelierocks (817)
• India
14 Mar 11
really thank you.. thanks a lot of suggesting i was really confused in all this stuff but you my friends helped me thanks once again..
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
13 Mar 11
I don't know what you would do but if I was in your situation, I wouldn't care about the other guy. Hell, he had his chance earlier and didn't do the right thing. Now is your chance and you might regret it later on if you don't do the right thing either. When it comes to these kinds of things, just do what you gotta do and don't even care about the other guy. He can get another girl for one thing.
@Princelierocks (817)
• India
14 Mar 11
thanks buddy i really appreciate your comment i will jus stick to my GF and be happy with her
@AShraderJr (156)
• United States
13 Mar 11
Prince, I am in a slightly worse situation but very similar in many ways. Unfortunately my girlfriend and I are separated and dealing with some difficult to explain issues as of right now. I will not let her go, I will not let her be with someone that has already let her down in the past.
If you feel that your love is strong enough to make it through. Then you should never give up. Never give in to pressure. Relationships are about the good times and the bad, The easy and the hard.
Hold onto her and never let her forget how much she means to you. I wish you luck in love my friend.
-Tony
@Princelierocks (817)
• India
14 Mar 11
Thanks dude even i was thinking of the same think that i should never let my love go... after all even i am a human being and i have a heart.. i will love my girl and love till the end thanks very much
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
20 Mar 11
Hey dear, your answer THANK GOD is answered, she feels the same way you do, you are the guy, the man! You are the one!
I'm so happy for you. It seems she had many stress and it's good there is no anger there, that she can forgive, but surely she must be with who she loves, you you and you!
I'm very happy for you guys. Finally a happy ending
@edb225112 (124)
• United States
13 Mar 11
Quit trying to make decisions for your girlfriend. It sounds like she has made the decision that is right for her. She has choosen you! The other guy didn't see what he had in this relationship. It was his error. Your girlfriend forgave her ex-boyfriend that doesn't mean she continues to love him. You don't have the right to bow out so the other guy can have a second chance. If your girlfriend wants to see the ex-boyfriend, let her tell you. It is not noble for you to make decisions about your emotional life because you want to be nice. The loser behaved badly to your girlfriend in the past. He got what he deserved.
Celebrate the fact that is girl choose you! Make her love her choice more each day.
@r0ck_r0ck (1952)
• India
13 Mar 11
sad thing broo, well everything depends on her i guess. since you are ready to sacrifice let her decide who she will be happy with.. and dont force her in to something cause from your post it really seems you care alot about her..
