What do you do if you love says " We are just friends"

Sweden
March 12, 2011 3:38pm CST
hi friends, My friend had a situation of the above with his love. He was unable to digest the thing and cannot control his feelings upon her. Do you guys have the same thing happens? Plz share your views here..
3 responses
@rajeev075 (1961)
• India
27 Mar 11
and what if she even not say that..........
• United States
13 Mar 11
Not exactly in that way. If I loved someone and they said we were just friends I would be sad, and I probably would cry. My love would be genuine of course. Then I would have to either accept the person is a friend but then that means I would have to control my feelings and because I actually would love the person I don't think we could be close friends because it would tear me to pieces. So maybe just distant friends until someday, maybe I could get over the love.
@psyches (59)
• United States
12 Mar 11
You cannot make someone love you. The choice is to hang around her and try to control yourself and constantly hope she will change her mind, or go somewhere else where you might find someone who will love you back.