My stalker, how can I leave you?

@zearah (5381)
Philippines
March 12, 2011 7:19pm CST
I want to avoid this contact since we had a misunderstanding and even after I expressed my apology and did show to him that I really didn't mean to hurt him.Now, he is keep on telling me that I am so bad and dishonest.It makes me realize then that he is not worth of my apology and kind treatment because he can only be happy if I can grant his request.I observed that he doesn't feel how I am hurt especially when he accused me of being a bad and conceited.A real friend is someone who can feel how you feel either happy or sad. I tried to delete him in my Yahoo Messenger buddy list but why is it that he can still send messages?What I should do to avoid this stalker of mine?
9 responses
• Philippines
14 Mar 11
You would have to change accounts to avoid him. If you're seeking for assassination services, though, just send me a private message. I'd be happy to do the job for half the price.
@donski (132)
• Philippines
14 Mar 11
If he doesn't want to accept your apology then be it. at least you've tried. you know, a real friend is someone who will accept you no matter who and what your are. never mind him, just be happy anyway he's not the only person in this world. Who knows someday he would realize what he loss a good friend. just be yourself and be happy.
@umabharti (3972)
• India
13 Mar 11
hi try to find the misunderstanding,y it came between u both.Any person without a reason doest hurt another .If its for fun or hurting u then u urself will avoid that person.When u urself dont agree it from deep within and u feel urself that there is some mistake from urside also this gives the other person the strength to be more powerful in doing the same thing. Find out the reason which came between u and tat person so that u might get together once again. Life is short.People are just like u.Heart and thoughts are same to everyone.Try .You will get success. Bye.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
13 Mar 11
He didn't erase or ignored you. If things get really bad the best thing is give a time to go to messenger or you should consider to erase this account and create another.
@yanyanyow (326)
• Philippines
13 Mar 11
i think there is an option in yahoo messenger that you can block other persons so he or she cannot see you anymore. but if not, you can delete your previous account and make new one and make sure to add all your friends and remind them that your not friends your "stalker" anymore and ask them not give your ym id to them so he cant disturb you anymore.
@thetigers (108)
• Philippines
13 Mar 11
Those kind of people deserves to be avoided. They are having luck of attentions, and when they get to see that you've done loads of efforts to avoid them and get irritated to them, they feel much happier with that.When I encounterred those kinda people, I tried my best not to make them see how i truely feels with them. I tried to hide the true feelings of being irritated with, till they realise they does'nt make sense on me. 'Till they finally/totally to get rid of me....
@rosegardens (3034)
• United States
13 Mar 11
You can report his messages. I do not have Yahoo messenger set up, so I cannot tell you how to do this. Look through your menu options. Better yet, download Yazak. I think it is easier to report people through that chat client, just easier to find the report function. I am sorry you are going through this. Having someone do this type of thing is very upsetting. Every time he sends a message, simply report it. Do not read it if you can. May God give you peace in the face of this adversary.
• United States
13 Mar 11
This is what bad people/stalkers do they know it irritates the person they are pestering so they continue to do it. If you exert energy and effort somehow they find this to be fun. You can save the messages and contact support and the person IP address can be blocked. If he gets another email his IP will still be blocked, It would mean he has to go somewhere else to continue to contact you and that would be inconvenient every time. What I would also do is make your status look invisible in the options field and completely ignore. They eventually get tired and as for his worthiness after you apologized, no that is it you have done the right thing and your conscious is clean, so let him deal with him own conscious.
@hieuhanh (96)
• Vietnam
13 Mar 11
I think that he is not your friend . Anyway , you should forget him to make you more comfortable , do not let him make you sad . Just ignore his yahoo , you won't recieve any messenger of him . Don't worry , you still happy :)