How long for a relationship to stay?
By iamhanifah
@iamhanifah (242)
Philippines
March 12, 2011 11:20pm CST
People say that it is hard to know the person you love, especially when you meet him through chat, net or phone. I wonder how long will it take for us to know the deeper self of our loved ones...
3 responses
@astommacrissandra (85)
• Philippines
13 Mar 11
at times it is a constant adjustment and an everyday effort to know one person.. It is so impossible to knew completely one person... Even if 5,10,15,20 yrs u knew one person. it is so impossible knew him completely.. what is important is you continously explore and adjust to what you discover to your loved ones.
@iamhanifah (242)
• Philippines
13 Mar 11
I guess so. You could hardly read their hearts and their mind.
@KentarouKawasaki (14)
• United States
13 Mar 11
I believe it varies based on the person, but I also believe that everyone should be able to truly know their loved one after some time or another, otherwise they are not the right one. This is why dating someone you have been a very close friend too was more encouraged in the past, as you know them and they know you. This is how I see things anyways. As for how long it takes, as I said it varies. It's best to know them before hand, but if not then I suppose do what you can to bring that side out. Talk to them about serious issues, and bring up topics that will encourage your loved one to show that deeper self you speak of.
This is my two cents. (:
@astommacrissandra (85)
• Philippines
13 Mar 11
I think through time and effort you can know a person deeper..