how close with parents

well my friend, I just can tell you that all of us that have our parents alive are lucky, so try to redeem the time because the time, is running and will never come back, call them, invite them to your house or surprise them visiting, but redeem the time with them because the family is the most valuable treasure that we have, look at you in the future, and ask yourself, is that the kind of relatioship that i want with my children when they grow up? call them a call is not an expensive tool but have a lot of value. Good luck.

Invest time with them. Get as much time spent with them knowing them. Loving is knowing. Talk to them more often and let them know that you love them. I am pretty close to my mom, not because I have always been with her. But she's I've always been there for her. Sometimes I just call home, and allow her to pour down her emotions, I just give her the listening ear for her. Communication would be great tool for love. God bless you my friend! God bless your family! Have a happy life!

It is just like any other relationship, you have to invest time in to it. You didnt become close to your spouse by not talking or visiting. Its just like that. I would try to just visit them a little more often and calling them more than you are. You maybe suprised, they may be wanting a closer relationship with you but are thinking since you dont make the effort then you dont care. Good luck!

Hi, It seem you have left your home when you are still very young,during that time,do your parents come to visit you. I can understand your situation since you left home at young age,of course,less communication carry on between yours and it definitely affect your relationship with your parents. Now you have married and have own family,you can always pay them a visit during your off-day or take some break from your work to give them a suprise to visit your parents, I believe they will be very happy to see you back home. It is just a matter of whether you want to take the initiative to get closer with your parents or not,you still not too late to get closer to them. SPend more time with them as you can,treasure the moments you spent with them. Or you can suggest a simple holiday trip together with your parents and family. It will be a nice gathering for everyone.

You should go back and visit them. Or maybe go out with them on a trip or vacation or whatever. These are the people who brought you up so you should form a much stronger bond with them.

invest your time with them since they are already old. Be with them most of the time. Be physically, mentally and emotionally present. Plan for some picnic trips or vacation. I mean It is never too late to bond with them. cook foods that they like. Go to church with them. Every little thing how big or small that is. It counts.