How stupid
By Sarai4810
@Sarai4810 (78)
March 14, 2011 6:20pm CST
Seriously why caint the women that is being hite severl times why caint they talk. I understand that they are scared,but scared of what? Why caint they put charges to them stupid guys that dint got a heart. Man like that deserve to be in jail for life and to never come out of there.i hate seen the women's suffering just because of that. They caint do nothung bacause of them mean man. I wish I could get every single guy that loves to hit on a women to do it to a real man and for them guys to whoop on them so hard for them to feel what the women feel .
1 response
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
15 Mar 11
Hi Sarai4810 and welcome to myLot!
I am with you with regards to the fact that a man or woman who is an abuser should get what they deserve. There are so many reasons why abused and or battered women refrain from furthering to assure that the abuser gets what they deserve, sure speaking out more and helping others can certainly help many develop a bit of courage.
But for the many reasons that many stay and do nothing it would be difficult to say outright as to the why unless we live it at the moment. Believe me I have lived it and know and know enough not to ever allow it now. So my suggestion would be to yes speak out and perhaps more will and I certainly do, but for starter I do not feel that my calling any of them st@pid really helps them in any way. As for putting charges, that also depends also because sometimes a piece of paper does not stop a demented cruel abuser.
I see that you do not specified where you are from but here in the US the law does not always step so quickly as you suggest. Quite unfortunate indeed but sometimes many of these women suffer a great deal until one day they either get badly hurt and or they do finally leave.
