What would you do?
By Mitaeshai
@Mitaeshai (25)
United States
March 14, 2011 10:48pm CST
I have a friend and she has been dating this female for almost a year now, she meet this female through a old friend that the female use to date, after she started dating this female she found out that this so called friend that introduced them use to date this female for 4 yrs, then she found out that they were still living together, but she decided to still stay. Now I have heard from other friends of mine that the female and this so called old friend have been running scams on other people tring to use them for their money and that they are still together and nerver broke up. I dnt know what to do cause i know my friend is really in love with this female, but her and the female dont ever spend time together anymore. Should I tell my friend or keep it to myself.
3 responses
@xien2xien (1382)
• Philippines
15 Mar 11
i don't get it, your friend is a girl and she is in love with this female old friend? wow, sounds like a scam.... what you should do is to tell your friend to love a guy and not a girl.
@Mitaeshai (25)
• United States
15 Mar 11
who my friend choses to love is up to her wether its female or male who am i to judge or try and tell her who to be with all i can do as a bestfriend is be there and stand by her side in every choice she makes. when given the right info.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
15 Mar 11
Hi Mitaeshai and a warm welcome to you to myLot!
When we call people friends we need to remember that it comes with honesty and loyalty. I truly believe you need to inform your friend and somehow help her understand she is going to be legally implicated by this illegal activity. If she falls in with them how will you feel later having not helped?
I personally would feel guilty for not having told her. If she does not listen to you at least for the sake of friendship please let her know, if she wishes to continue then all you can do is take a step back and wish here well.
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
15 Mar 11
I strongly believe that you should tell your friend, because that information is very important to her. As a friend we should be concerned and care about our friend's welfare and should do our best to see that she is well and safe. If you tell her and she won't believe you, you shouldn't feel bad. AT least you have done something to save her. But if you keep that information to yourself and later on she will find out that you knew and still kept it to yourself, she would feel more hurt that you didn't try to tell it to her.
So it's best that you tell her but do this without any personal motive at all but just to help her.
