Dreamed of your ex partner....
By maean_19
@maean_19 (4655)
Philippines
March 15, 2011 12:53am CST
It has been 3 months passed that I had broken up with my ex partner and I have thought I had moved on. Well, yes I had moved on and no longer misses him. Besides, I could already say in case I would get bump unto him, that would be fine with me.
However, yesterday and 3 days ago, I dreamed of him and I don't know why. I know that dreams can be linked with our desires and what we want to happen or any relation in the future, but I don't think that is the reason. In that dream, it was very clear to me. In the dream, he came over and kissed me and I asked him what is that kiss for?...And he answered me that he wanted to come back and he has broken up with the girl he chose over me. That was a very strange dream because during the times that I am still hurting and longing for him, there was no chance that he appeared in my dream. Yet now that I am over him, that's when he is visible.
Can you share me your thoughts on this one?
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17 responses
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
15 Mar 11
Good to hear that from you already that you had broken up with your ex already because you deserve the respect as woman.
If in case that your dream will become true then I think that is the meaning of having his regrets for the fault that he have done to you.
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@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
24 Mar 11
Hi there my dear! Been a long time that I have not seen you around. Anyways, yeah at last I had broken up with my then partner which caused me emotional stress. I am free now. My friends have been asking me of a situation of what if he comes to me and say sorry and asks me to be together again. I think, because of that question staying in my mind lead me dreaming of him although I don't think of him per se.
Well, I have no communication with him anymore and so I have no idea what he has been doing or where he is. I don't want to assume either.
I think the dream is a sign that I already have the answer. I may love him, but that would not be the issue anymore. I don't want to have another mistake in my life. I won't compromise.
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@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
25 Mar 11
By the way this is off topic 
I just want to ask the website that you recommended me, too bad I just forgot the name and became lazy to post that is why I haven't reach the payment 
I have been doing the graphic design stuff for my portfolio.
I just hope that you can meet the right guy someday that will really love you. It is just easy to say sorry but the question is if he is sincere.
I just want to ask the website that you recommended me, too bad I just forgot the name and became lazy to post that is why I haven't reach the payment I have been doing the graphic design stuff for my portfolio.
I just hope that you can meet the right guy someday that will really love you. It is just easy to say sorry but the question is if he is sincere.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
15 Mar 11
Friend I want to say one thing every women has a story. Yes some time when I stay alone then I think about my ex-boyfriend even my husband is so nice cute and lovable and I also loved him so much but some memory cant left from our heart. Only 3 to 4 times we meet in college life and my boy friend is proposed me but at the same time I said him sorry in our community love marriage is not allowed and I dont want to break my mother's believeness on me. My boyfriend was really nice and he say me ok and ask me I can make a friendship I say yes. This event is known my husband also because I said him this was happend in my college life. Some time I saw him on my dream.
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@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
20 Mar 11
Well perhaps you loved him so much, but you can't be with each other because of your tradition and beliefs.
As for me, before, every time I dreamed of my ex, the dream comes true. Although, this time, I am not sure how I will interpret it. I don't think about it though.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
20 Mar 11
Yes friend we could not meet due to my tradition but I also dont think about that but some time dream touch the heart. Our husband nice but memory cant left us.
thanks
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
15 Mar 11
It is strange where our dreams take us. I have been divorced for over 30 years but yet i still dream of my ex sometimes. Go figure.
@Ingkingderders (3832)
• Philippines
15 Mar 11
Ahh. They say that your dreams shows what your unconscious is thinking, though I'm not really sure if that is true. I have once or twice dreamed of my ex-boyfriends before, usually in my dream we are still together or something like that.. I'm not also sure what it means, though I don't really think about it much. Hehehe.
@lovelyn_medrano (3070)
• Philippines
15 Mar 11
I am not sure actually... may be unconsciously, you are still longing for him... that there is still something left ... and you are still hoping or thinking if only he did "that", what he do in your dream, you would probably do this or that...
That unconscious feeling doesn't necessarily mean you love him still... may be its hatred because of the bad things that he did to you... like you wanted him to say or do that (approach you) then you would say in his face that you already moved on and he is totally completely out of your life...
Well I don't know... but sometimes dreams are just dreams... no meaning at all... they are sometimes weird...
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@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
20 Mar 11
Do you believe our spirit leaves our body every night? I do and I had two proofs in my life as there were other people that had the same dream, how can someone dream the same I did?? For me that was proof that we get out of our body and meet people we know too, so you might not love him like that, you might not miss him but maybe deep inside you both have a friend love, and the friendship remains.
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@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
24 Mar 11
I believe so because I had experienced seeing my body then, but that was very long time ago. My soul was roaming around.
With regard to the dream, I guess it happened due to a question that has been playing in my mind. I am hoping for the friendship to remain, but I don't expect to happen now.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
16 Mar 11
3 months isn't long. You need more time to heal. So he is haunting your dreams. But This dream could be your mind playing a huge what if game. In the dream did you say you Wanted him back? if so , it just means you are not over him... yet. But if you said No way! then you are ready. I used to dream about my ex. But in time the dreams stopped. Hang in there.
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@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
17 Mar 11
i have also dreamed of my girlfriend in high school, not only once but many times. it could be that i still think about her in reality. i know it's impossible to happen but if one day it will come, it would be a nice experience to see her again, for even on time.
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@cx258641 (109)
• China
20 Mar 11
i guess you have notice someone else really , you longing for his attention .
we call this wish fulfillment ,(interpretation of dreams by sigmund freud )
so in the dream you displace him by your ex partner and hidden your wishes ,
generally speak you began to love someone else even you don't confess or realize it yourself .
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@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
15 Mar 11
Hello Maean
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It's just a dream. Or probably some thing that is part of you're memory once, dreams can be random depending on what's our condition every day. in this case you just dreamed of him. sometimes we think about them and it's alright, if you strongly believed that you have moved on then that's it.
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It's just a dream. Or probably some thing that is part of you're memory once, dreams can be random depending on what's our condition every day. in this case you just dreamed of him. sometimes we think about them and it's alright, if you strongly believed that you have moved on then that's it.
@tiffnkeat (1673)
• Singapore
15 Mar 11
Would it hurt if I say "Wake up?"
Do you know in real life how he is doing with the new girl? If he is still with her, then heed my advice, and wake up. Don't hold on because you will hurt yourself with disillusion and self-deception.
I trust you are a nice person, so please hurt yourself no longer. Even if he has broken up, don't initiate anything, otherwise he might not appreciate you and think you are desperate to get back to him. If he really cares and wants you back, he will look for you, won't he?
I have often dreamt of mine many years ago, and which is why I am advising you to please wake up. It took me so long...if only someone had shaken me out of my stupor earlier.
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@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
20 Mar 11
It won't hurt my dear because I am actually awake.
Well, I know there will always be times that we think of our past, but I don't hold on to it nor did pray or expect him to come back. It is true that my love for him will not be that easy to be erased because we lived together. But, getting back together when he asks for it would be a different issue.
Thing happened for a reason and something to learn from. I am more focused with the future and the present and not the past.
Well, I know there will always be times that we think of our past, but I don't hold on to it nor did pray or expect him to come back. It is true that my love for him will not be that easy to be erased because we lived together. But, getting back together when he asks for it would be a different issue.
Thing happened for a reason and something to learn from. I am more focused with the future and the present and not the past.
@sexyice (873)
• Latvia
15 Mar 11
Dreams are the subconscious mind. Maybe somewhere deep inside regret broken up. Do you regret your choice? Do you want him back? You wrote, you still hurting, baybe you hurt give your good dream because want if you feel good. Maybe you just need something new - haircut or manicure. Because in your mins still are your ex, keep livink new life, without hurt!
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@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
20 Mar 11
I don't regret anything. Besides, I had forgiven him whatever he did. Maybe in my subconscious mind, I still yearn for that closure or questions to be answered. The break was not good, so I acknowledge it will not be easy. But I am doing everything to move on, not for him, rather for myself.
@abatencila (970)
• Philippines
24 Mar 11
I also have dreams with my ex boyfriend although I'm not thinking of him. I'm happily married now and I don't know why i have to dream of him. Maybe, he is the one thinking of me, LOL!
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
31 Jan 12
Maybe you dream about him because there are part of your mind that dream him before. But i think it is also because you still thinking of him sometimes that why you saw him on you dream. Me,i dream something when i always thinking of it all day and i want to have it. Like cellphone,when i want a new phone i think about it all day and in my dream,i can see that i have a new phone.
