Missing the loved one
@Princelierocks (817)
India
March 15, 2011 2:28am CST
Hiee everybody.. My exams as well as my GF exams are going on.. we have been dating since one year.. from the last six months we cant meet and date up properly due to parents issues and some other problems we had hardly spent some more time together since six months.. and now since our exams are going on i can understand the situation but suddenly her bro is coming from abroad for holidays who is very possessive about her and she says that it will be hard for us to date and even talk on phone as her bro is very possessive about my GF. Its becoming very hard for me to accept all this stuff.. i love her a lot and want to date her too she said its jus a matter of one and a half month but it matters to me a lot iam gonna miss her guys any suggestions regarding this plz help...??
8 responses
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
20 Mar 11
Wow dear, what a situation! Seems there are so many things against: if you love her my advice for sure will be: fight, keep going dear.
Worst than suffer for these things is to loose someone we love, you are already lucky to have your love loving you back. Plus everyone have problems in their relationship. You know that you can get anything you want from life if you have persistence? That's what I think you'll both need cause you are going to be together even until gets boring, like married! Seeing her everyday and night!
Dream about it, it will happen.
Plus your story is soooooo romantic!
I dated the long distance relationship and it was a lot of suffering but so romantic!
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
28 Jan 12
I agree.. They will experience being together everyday when they get married. When the time comes that we don't see our love one for such a long period of time and then we met again,there has super romantic feeling. Try to enjoy their relationship when they are still in stage of being boyfriend and girlfriend.
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
15 Mar 11
Hi,
I can understand how is your feeling missing
your girlfriend so much,but you guys can't meet up or having a date.
Since now is an examination,concentrate on your exam and
have a date again after the exam over. Give her a call once a while when
you are free.
But it is kinda hard for you guys to get together since there is some
issues on the parents side. Do both side parents agree with
this relationship. Or else, you guys may having a hard time to be
together.
You can always send SMS to her saying how much you love her and miss her
so much.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
15 Mar 11
Ah, the family problems of relationships. It's pretty hard already if the parents don't accept you but include her brother too? ..that's gonna be a one big tidal wave you'll have to stand if you really love her. I guess you'll have to rely on text messaging for a while or Facebook private messaging or chatting there or in YM. Obviously, you can't meet that often so you'll have to rely on modern technologies.
@Princelierocks (817)
• India
15 Mar 11
yeah i have using this stuff guess i have to use it on large scale now
@hieuhanh (96)
• Vietnam
15 Mar 11
Maybe I can not help you , I just want to say with you something : real love is the volunteer from 2 hearts . Love is not must have each other , sometime you will leave her to make her happy , pleasant more than beside with you ! You can not compel her love you . Let think that you love her or just only want to have her ?
Let strong !
@astommacrissandra (85)
• Philippines
15 Mar 11
I believe that love is a choice, a sacrifice, a commitment and more. I agree with you when you said that love is not just having the both of you together. At times being far from your loved one is a way to see if you really are inlove with a person.
@manojkrs291 (482)
• Delhi, India
15 Mar 11
i think you have to take care of that situation. you love her a lot but if she is refusing due to family matters, you should respect her wish because love need respect and sacrifice. if you will not meet her for one and a half month your love with her will not decrease, but increase also. its a time for you to sacrifice your wish to give her some respect. besides meeting you can chat her on net or phone and share your feelings. you can also say her that you are missing her a lot. after one month wen you will meet her, you will see that the love between you and her has increased with each other.
@Princelierocks (817)
• India
15 Mar 11
yeah even i was thinking of the same think.. There is no easy way out in love we always have to be respectful and sacrificial thanks for the suggestion
@astommacrissandra (85)
• Philippines
15 Mar 11
i think in every relationship there are sacrifices that has to be done. You can't always be with your girl. You do not own your girlfriend. I mean she also has other life besides her relationship from you. I understand that you really love her and want to be with her most of the time. Sacrifice sometimes is needed.
@Princelierocks (817)
• India
15 Mar 11
Thanks,, well i think its time for me to show up some sacrifices after all love is created when sacrifice and respect is there thanks once again
@jeffreyallen (298)
• United States
15 Mar 11
If you really love her, you should wait. And if she loves you, she`ll come to you when she can. Yeah, some situations make love hard, but you gotta fight through it and try.
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
28 Jan 12
I think you must wait for the right time. After this happening everything will be worth it. It hard to be in illegal relationship because of the family of your partner. Try to show to your future parents in law that you love your girlfriend so much and you will not hurt her,someday and maybe if you do it they will accept you as the boyfriend of their daughter..
