Child Care is necessary
By smilywomen
@surekharathi (14146)
India
March 15, 2011 3:42am CST
Every parents should take care of your childs you are agree with me because a real incident took place with two childs.
A women has two childs first is 4 years and second is 10 months. 10 months child is not fair than 4 years child.
She was gone neighbors house for taking sugar for her child and tell her 4 yrs child please take care of your small brother, I am coming with in 5 minutes but she not came till 20 minutes.
Here 4 yr child regularly saw her mother to clean the cloth in washing machine and he thought if I put in small brother in that machine then he will also clean and will see fair or white. He pick up his small brother in his hand and put up in washing machine and start the button. His brother died and more pieces are there mother has came and ask where is your brother he was sleep when she was gone.
Her younger child say my brother is in washing machine she saw small boy in washing machine and crying loudly so 4 year brother think that mother will beat me he is also jumping on second floor and died.
How a sad incident both child are died.
So take care parents and dont leave alone their small child even a 5 minutes also what thing about it share your views I am saying to the parents or not
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10 responses
@jameygc (452)
• United States
15 Mar 11
Is very sad that two lifes are gone because of the negligence of a mother. Parenthood is a big responsibility, is not a part time job. We need to take good care of kids all the time. In just one second something can happen. As a mother I just imagine the pain of this mother, who probably loved her kids with all her heart and just one mistake cost her kids lifes and she never can go back to repair that. I bet she wish she can do it.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
15 Mar 11
Yes friend I understand your feelings and really she never can go back repair. But I think when God call us no one can help us even a mother also but both the is gone it is very sad.
@magrylouyu (1627)
• United States
19 Mar 11
This is a very horriable story. I could never in my life emagine leaving any of my kids alone. My oldest is almost 8 and still wouldnt trust him alone for any amount of time. I do not plan on leaving any of my children home alone until at least 13 maybe even 14. I do not understand how any real parent could do this to their child. I do not care how responsiable the older sibling is no child is responsable enough to care for a younger sibling. Very, very sad story.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
19 Mar 11
Yes friend when I read this news literally I cried because two child and no one is live the how mother can live without child. But the mother not think that their child will do that and if God call us then no one can safe us.
Really this incident was a lesson for every parents
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
16 Mar 11
Oh my G, this is too sad. I as a responsible parent would never leave a 10 or 12 year child with a ten month old for a minute. The way I see it is that if there is an emergency even a 12 year old cannot calm down enough on their own, so I don't see how they can handle a 10 month year old during an emergency.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
18 Mar 11
Ya friend this is true parents should never leave for a minute 10 months child because some time he/she may cry or may be fall anything can do. But this is a lesson for parents who is irresponsible about their child.
Thanks to lot
Have a nice day
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
16 Mar 11
I think this must be the most exausting work ever cause problems happens not because someone is a bad mothre/father, but because human being can't possibly focus 100% all the time, so when they get distracted that's when it's dangerous to the kids do something. I admire parents.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
18 Mar 11
Ye you are right parents cant with your child all time 100% but they should take care and if they left alone their child then they should proper place and with proper person.
Because money can come again with in a month but child not.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Mar 11
It is irresponsible for a mother to think that a 4 yr old child could take care of her brother. At that age, a child cannot discern the things that he sees what everybody is doing, much more of some complicated tasks, such as that washing machine and what it is for?
Besides, a mother should never leave a child alone, not even for 5 minutes, because being a child, he / she is bound to do something that would fancy his eyes and small mind.
I pity the mother for being such. 
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
18 Mar 11
Yes friend you are right in 4 yr age no child can understand what is good and what is bad so this is responsibility of mother should not left alone.
Thanks to your thoughts
Have a nice day
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
15 Mar 11
Hi surekha,
How she left the baby with a 4 year old
, I can’t understand the logic behind that
. She could carry the 10 months old baby that is what all mothers are doing usually in case nobody at home. I am really shocked to know this. Years ago a similar incident happened in my native. Where the kids are grown up ( age between 10-12) than this and they wee playing with knife and accidentally one killed the other and the killer got scared and hide under the car when their parents came and see the child unconscious they rushed to the hospital in the car and never noticed the other is hiding under the car. The other boy also got killed. Just imagine the state of mind of their parents.
Children should not be left alone at home under any circumstances.
, I can’t understand the logic behind that. She could carry the 10 months old baby that is what all mothers are doing usually in case nobody at home. I am really shocked to know this. Years ago a similar incident happened in my native. Where the kids are grown up ( age between 10-12) than this and they wee playing with knife and accidentally one killed the other and the killer got scared and hide under the car when their parents came and see the child unconscious they rushed to the hospital in the car and never noticed the other is hiding under the car. The other boy also got killed. Just imagine the state of mind of their parents.
Children should not be left alone at home under any circumstances.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
15 Mar 11
Ohhhhhhh no this is another incident why the parents left their child alone. Really parents should take care of their children carefully and never left alone in any circumstances you are right.
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
15 Mar 11
Hi,
Sad to read about the story that you wrote above.
It is really an accident and can't blamed the 4 years old kid,she is
too young to understand what is right and what is wrong.
She never know that by putting her brother inside the machine, he will
die.
Actually the one that has to be blame is the mother. She is not supposed to leave
the kids at home and went to neighbour to take sugar,Not even for 2-3 minutes,it
is very dangerous.
For me, I never leave my son alone at home,only sometimes,when I have the urge
to go toilet or just go backyard to dry up my laundry,then I will leave my son inside
the house. But i will faster get my things done and go inside the house
to have a look at my son.
@yanyanyow (326)
• Philippines
15 Mar 11
is this true? it sounds like it is a fiction story. going back to the topic, you are right about not leaving the children for a long time. if parents cant attend to their kids, they should ask someone to watch them over for a while they are gone. children are innocent and they are trying to learn as much as possible so all the things around them are new to them. they are still exploring the world and a proper guidance is a must. no matter what age your child is, infants, babies, kids, young adult, teenage, the thing is that they are still young and an elder should always guide them to whatever they do in life.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
15 Mar 11
No my friend this not a story how I can make a story like this. I read this in the Daily News paper. Here lost the life of two small boy and you are saying story no no one can make this type of story.
@sameer_1984 (215)
• India
15 Mar 11
Very unfortunate incidents in this discussion.Parents should take care of there childs.Atleast they shouldn't leave their childs alone at home upto 10 years of age.Besides accidents people required to take care of thier childs from different kind of infections and illness.Vaccinations should be properly done.
