Do you love harder?

Hello again sexy, I easily fell inlove to a guy who is nice and sweet! But if he's not happy with me, I'm willing to let go! I would understand! :)

I guess I also love more...but sometimes, it is not healthy for a relationship. I mean, I sometimes tend to expect to get the same treatment, which of course, is not possible because of individuality...it does not mean he loves me less, it is just that because I think I love too much, I also think I get less...sad, but true

You are right. I also love very harder who ever I get in my opposite... And some time it creates problem too when they consider that I am not giving much space to them to have their relationship with any body else like their old friends and family as I expect them too to give much time and energy... Thanks..

Hi sexy! Both my boyfriend and I love each other equally, it does not take effort. Although I believe I understand what you are saying. You like the extra bits you do, I feel we all while in love do too. Love between two needs to be a mutual give and take. It has been working for us now for 6 years and living for five!

When I love I love. I give my all. I did that years ago when I got married and now after 17 years of marriage I feel totally different. I was taken for everything, she even took my children. I feel like I loved the wrong person, she did not deserve it. I did wind up meeting up with a girl that I used to know. She was a model. I now have a relationship with her, yes I do love her but feel as if a piece of me is missing. Sometimes we do not see things that are right in front of our faces.

i am very hard for loving . i will prepare serious realtion ship to wards my girl friend and finally she was refused with me and our love lives doesnt long it sinks in the middle of the ocean. She refused with me and then gone away i dont know what the situation might be but she never tell to me a type of situation is goin on like that she doesnt tell anything. even this time i never get harder through my love suddenly she came to me at that time she refused but she was asking for sorry. From this time also i never forget that thing what happened in that just i disturbed this time also thats why i never think about the love its a waste of time and out age.

In any of the relationships i have had over the years i do believe i am the one who has always loved harder. I put those challenges on myself because expression of love is important to me.

You and me seem to be so similar in the ways we are. In my time so far i have had a few serious relationships. I only enter a relationship because i want it to last and to lead somewhere, to hope that this is the person i will spend the rest of my life with. If i wasn't sure then i would not be with them. I always make sure that i treat them right and that i am always there for them in many different ways, for them to know that not only are they my lover but my best friend also. It seems over time that i have always been the one that does everything, that seems to love and care more than they did. I have always done what i can to please them and to make sure that they are happy. I too feel that if they are happy then this makes me happy, to see that big smile on their face and knowing that it is me that made them smile. However i have never left a relationship in my life, they have always left me, so i guess that no matter how much you try to please your lover, nothing is certain in life. All i need to do now is find someone who could love me the way i would love her, a relationship is a two way thing, never one way.

Wasteful, like 'breathing harder'---it doesn't make any more of the stuff (love OR air), and wastes the stuff you've got. I just let the love flow: it makes the love you receive feel more like 'a gift' and less like 'Well! It's about time! '; and when I feel compelled to give love, I'm less-disturbed by the thought of 'whether it's appropriate or not.'

I've been the one who gave, who did, who was there, who burnt myself out for the other, I wore myself out by being loving, caring, had concern I invested my all and everything in my past relationships. When it was the end of it I was the loser being me and financially and in materials. Have been single parent since 2001. Still hope for the love of my life to show up.

I just have had one lover up to now and I think I was the one who loved harder. I loved him more i think that is why he broke my heart. If he had loved me more than I did, I don't think he would have left me. Anyway that was my past and I'm absolutely OK now.

I gotta say, I think I love more. I always seem to give more than I receive. I love to make my husband happy and I do everything I can to do that. But my husband loves me too, who knows, maybe he loves harder but has trouble expressing it.

Well my sexy girl as u know i have been in both sides of the river... I have loved harder, my husband and as you know we are divorced by now, and only now i really understand that this my harder loving was the main mistake i made in these relationships. i was always care him so much, and actually i waited same back but never received, and than i just lie myself that i`m happy making happy him, that was sweet lie to myself. But some time ago, i was the one who didn`t love as hard as other part. and again everything ended. And that makes me understand there is no such thing as loving harder or less, there is only that u love some one or not...and in my first case, my husband didnt loved me and in second i`m so sure i didnt loved that guy. in love you do for each other the best and don`t look it`s more or less, there is just the way it should be.