Is jealousy the number 1 problem in breakups?

Not necessary only jealousy is the reason behind breakup. So many reason like some time mothers in law and fathers in law behaviour means if they torchers everyday their daughter in law, Husband's negligence, husband's unemployement etc. Some time jealousy may be the reason for breakup but you cannot say in every case.

Hi Kaizel and welcome to my lot. If a girl came up to my table while my husband and I was having a dinner, I would look at her and say hi my name is and who may you be. Then shame her for being so rude. It isn't the man's fault that this thing that acted like a street walker. Women like that have no respect for themselves much less anyone else. Jealousy in that situation would be wrong. We all have a little jealousy but we don't have to show it and make a fool of ourselves. Let's put it this way if a man is with a woman he isn't looking for someone he has someone. Jealously can be a problem in any relationship. Don't have to be boyfriend and girlfriend it can be between friends too.

No, pride is the biggest reason people break up. When you get down to it, it's probably the only reason they do.

i would have to say that jealousy might be a first for dating breakups but i think that money issues would be a first for marriages.

hello friend! i think jealousy is a cause of not only breakup but also it is a cause of break everything.i do not like it.i want to make my self so far from this.yes i understand your feelings.it is common friend.do not feel so sad.everything will be good. thanks a lot.

Long ago I read somewhere that love can be likened to a beautiful flower. Unfortunately, most times when it rises is already infected with certain parasites: jealousy, attachment, possessiveness, selfishness, etc.. They all suck its sap, stopându's growth and causing it to fade before they start to bloom. Many people are unable to distinguish between love and parasites, because it does not confer any second to analyze the occurrence and their manifestations. I'm too busy to point fingers, find the "guilty" for their suffering, to punish, to revenge, cut their wrists or other such insanity, instead of analyzing impurities in our own soul which are really the only real question for suffering. Removing them may prevent their suffering. It is very simple: (I say from experience) To remove them just to conscious observer without being compelled to leave them and not fight against them. Simple, right? In this way they will go away. This is the "recipe". Stop and think about than what kind of relationship you want? One life, which can grow every day and that can give a new meaning to life, based on the dedication and mutual trust or a surrogate, in which everyone says nice words to conceal their own personal interests? If you choose the first option when you are ready to trust your partner's choices, and you give them the freedom to follow their own path, even if this means you may not include you? And May I say to you a secret: once remove parasites, the flower of love will grow, unhindered by the sky. It knows no boundaries. Having solved the problems, your ability to live and love will be magnified a hundred times. We want to get everyone to feel true love with your half you will certainly meet (if you have not met yet), but only when you're ready, you have what to offer and are able to appreciate what you are offering. With the right attitude, imperfections can be dismantled, brick by brick, layer by layer. People capable of a relationship based on sincerity and total dedication around us. Not many, but there. But you must be able to feel them to recognize it.

Hi, Jealousy can be one of the factor for break-up in a relationship. But of course, other factors will play a part too. If there is no more trust between each other,then the relationship will be hard to be continued.A mutual respect and trust has to be the main point for a relationship to stay longer and stronger. Be it another party is trying to seduce your live partner or making some flirty actions,but as long as, your partner only has you in his heart, he won't be giving any response to the girl.

For me yes it is because the boyfriend don't know what the reason of not communicating to your relationship plus this world lack of patient then it is end.

Jealousy is a negative emotion thus it creates negative outcome, and that's why it contributes to break-ups of couples. For a couple, basically trust and understanding are the key factors to keep the relationship intact.

I think jealousy is just one of the factors why relationships leads to break up. Some are cheating, being bossy.. etc. I think number one is cheating. Jealusy is forgivable.. cheating is not.

The number one problem in breakups I say is not having trust with your partner. Jealousy falls into the not trusting each other part. I'm in a long distance relationship right now for a year and seven months and what's keeping us together is our trust and honesty. Of course there are our moments with jealousy where I have gotten jealous and my partner have gotten jealous, but we always have been able to tell each other what we feel with our jealousy and understand each other to the point we just laugh about it. I say if you keep the jealousy going, it's going to cut down to not trusting each other and then end up breaking up. Honesty and trust are the keys of having the relationship to work.

I would say, it is one of the other reasons of break-ups but jealousy triggers ones emotion and definitely, it would be unfair. Boys do find it flattering when someone of the opposite gender got interest on them although they would constantly admit that they are loyal and it's untrue. But girls on the other side could be really suspicious of their moves. There should be trust in the relationship but once trust is broken, it is harder to mend because you cannot simply rely on him anymore. One should be open and true to their feelings. It is totally unfair if you are with your girlfriend and her comes you joining the ride of the other girl. It would really hurt. With just because of JEALOUSY, i don't think it would be a prime reason for breakups not unless their are other reasons beyond this and one just reason out that you are this and that..

I don't think so. Trust is still the key for a healthy relationship.

In my own opinion, jealousy is the number 1 problem in relationships. I do not have problems with girls who flirt w/ my partner. What matters to me is the reaction of my partner or how my partner handles the situation. If I see that he likes being flirted with, or if he shows some interests to that girl during the actual flirting, then I will definitely be jealous. But if he doesn't mind the girl no matter how much flirting she shows, and if he's proud to show her that I AM HIS WOMAN. Then i don't think I will be jealous. I would even laugh at her for making all the effort but is rejected in the end.

There are so many contributing factors to the breakup of a relationship. it is difficult and unfair to place the blame on one ingredient or flaw. jealousy can be a huge culprit in the course of a relationship. where there is jealousy, problems can not be far behind. Getting rid of jealous behavior will surely ease the burden.

Definitely threesome.

If you mean by cheating I think that's the main reason cause after this only people with very low selfesteem will accept the cheater back. It's really like a stab in the back, no one with self respect could accept this cause this shows not only the other is a cheater, but that this person can lie, do things behind your back, is phony two faced...it's really hard to continue a family with a black sheep like this, so cheating is the main cause for sure.

i don't think you could make a clasification of the problems that could lead to a break up. this depends from couple to couple. jelousy somtimes is flollowed by other problems...it's true that it could lead to fights..but it all depends on how jelous you really are: if you exagerate than definitely your partner will be disturbed

with the situation you've given i think its not much of a problem not unless the boyfriend flirted back with the girl from the other table then thats another story. but generally speaking, jealousy is one of the problems causing breakups though i cant say its the number one. there are two ideas that actually confuse me: if you are jealous, then it may be because you dont trust your partner which is absolutely not good. but then, for me to be jealous is a natural sign that i care for my partner. i know if i dont anymore get jealous, i dont care whatever he does. depends on how one perceives it. maybe it's something you can ponder on.

Yes, jealousy is always the biggest problems for couples. In my opinion from my vast experience, in a strong and unbreakable couple, jealousy still exists but what creates an inseparable bond among them is their trust for each other. To have an undying love, one must have unbreakable trust for the other. As a conclusion, human beings are made with feelings. You will always experience jealousy when your partner talks to another person of the opposite, but it's the trust that matters.