Why married men are attracting to me ??!!
By remo86
@remo86 (252)
Egypt
March 17, 2011 2:30pm CST
Recently i found many married men are attracting or flirting me..even i had ex-boyfriend that was married "I know that is bad :S from my side".
Some are talking with me in phone others trying to get my number or doing something to take my attention.
Do you have any idea why that happened?What they are looking for with me??
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7 responses
@dismalgrin (2604)
• United States
18 Mar 11
These kinds of men are pigs. They are the kind that find a sick thrill in seeing another woman that they hope will respect the fact that they are married just enough to not want anything serious, but they do want the thrill of being with someone besides the person they chose to spend their life with. It's not bad on your part at all really. Now if you were seeking out married men because you don't want a commitment and you like the thrill of stealing a man away from his woman, that would be bad.
I was once caught up in a relationship with a man like that. I'm so glad that I was able to get out. He was separated from his wife, but still legally married. We were together for 4 years before he finalized the divorce with his wife. I figured all was good and that now we could get married. But, then he turned around and married someone else... and expected me to still be with him! I was with him for only a year longer after that because we had kids together and I felt like I owed it to my children, but they don't deserve that either, do they?
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@cream97 (29087)
• United States
19 Mar 11
Hi. remo86. Men are just doggs, they will try to get what they can. I hope that they are able to leave women alone as they are married. They also like the thrill of trying to inch their way into your mind and heart. I have many married men that has flirted with me. And it is not a pleasant feeling either. You must be a very pretty woman for a man to be after you as they are married. Just be very careful into getting involved with any of them. You don't want to be the other woman, trust me, you don't.
@nikramos (698)
• Philippines
18 Mar 11
been asking the same. sigh sigh sigh.it made me think- its either im someone who looks like a good past time (which i hope not) or someone who's exceptionally special than the 'other'.
physically maybe there's more to love?lol, probably. but seriously, i was once told that more than a physical attraction, guys who stray are after women who are more caring, more loving, more devoted than who they legally have. and i mean these are the guys who seriously want out of their marriage and not just for fun. as for the flirting you encounter, i dont consider it as a good idea. not unless the guy is head over heels serious about you, i dont suggest giving it a go. there's a lot to know if it's worth risking it or not. been there, done that.
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
18 Mar 11
Man--whatever humanity's spiritual bubbling-over may say to the contrary--is a breeding animal. The men's full-intention may be to remain faithful to their wives, but their bodies' intentions do not know conscience or faithfulness---they just know that your body is as attractive as any other they've ever seen!
@blcoll01 (15)
• United States
17 Mar 11
Some men just want what they can't have. Do you really want to be the other women though? If it were me, I would walk away once I knew they were married that just causes too much drama.