Men are so confusing
By Wilsgurl
@Wilsgurl (1)
Canada
March 17, 2011 2:46pm CST
So ive been in a relationship for two years now he says he loves me and wants to be with me forever but when I ask him to have a baby with me he says NO! I really want children I babysit a lot to cover the need to be around a child but I want more. I'm grieving everyday and day dreaming of what it would be like to have a child. I'm ready to have a child and am prepared but like I said I ask him and he says no. Like does he not love me cause if he did wouldn't he want to have a baby with me?
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@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
17 Mar 11
You say relationship, does that mean married, maybe if you are not married he does not want a baby until marriage or if you are married maybe he just wants to wait awhile..so if you are not married yet maybe you should sit down and have a serious talk and make a decision on the outcome.
@dainy1313 (2370)
• Leon, Mexico
17 Mar 11
Hello sweet Wilsgurl, welcome to Mylot! I understand your complaint! When true love exists, babies are wanted. But don´t worry. I´ve never known about a man that doesn´t fear to have a baby. I also wanted a baby from my husband. But he feared it. He felt on panic. Most men are never prepared to have and raise a baby.
Women, we, are almost tender, and sweet, and many of us had been raised to have a baby. We played the mother roll since we were little&cute girls.
I think you should not worry, rather than this, you should sow your love in his heart. (We have three children now) I´m sure you´ll find the correct way to get what you want =)... A lot of Blessings! Dainy
