Do you feel bad after you have an argument ?

Yes I really feel bad after a argument as it always ends with some grudge... Thanks to ask..:)

It does not matter so much to me because even before i get into an argument, i make sure i will win.

I am very bad in arguing. Definitely I lose in any argument. so i never go to arguments. why we try to make others think like us. they have their own rights to thik and have opinion on their own. I never go to arguments. I just hear and nod my head when people say anything against my opinion. But I always do what i like. I never allow others to have control on my actions, including my hubby

I often got myself in an argument, too. I would continue to argue sportively if the other person is fun to have an argument. Or I would leave the argument before it gets to hot too handle, especially when I now that the other person or myself will be hurt in the process.

i never felt bad with my ex as i hated him and he always ended up really insulting me and just being verbally abusive. i dont have a problem anymore as i am single.

It depends. If i argue with someone important to me, then i end up feeling bad. If i argue with someone not important, i end up smiling.

Yes I always do and wish I had never said things and then I think what a waste of energy it all was...

Hi... i am too polite here in mylot... i dont mean that you are not. please dont take it other way... hence, i have always simple comment to them and quietly leave the discussion. I have no argument here as far i can remember. Have a great day.

hello, Yes,when an argument leads into hurting each other. I always try my best not to say things that i will be regretting after. But sometimes,we can't control our emotion when we really felt bad and we are insulted. have a great weekend ahead

Hiya S4P, How can I not feel bad? I never wanted any argument in my life at all. But sometimes they are waiting to happen for some reason or another. We all get carried away with our characters sometimes and then we stop and think what have I said or done? Human fragility is part of us no one is immune to this kind of thing. Just keep trying that´s all to be out of arguments instead of in them. That count up to ten thing does not really work with me at all I just think what I am doing to myself and not trying to hurt anyone with those kind of words that come out of you don´t know where (grin).

Arguments can take so much emotion out of you. i don't feel good and right with myself after an argument. An argument isn't about winning or losing. It is the circumstances or situations and feelings that lead to the argument. Sometimes you are left with the question of whether an argument resolved anything or not.

i really feel bad especially when it ended unresolved.. although arguments are natural since not all of us are with the same idea, but it really give me an ill feeling... may be because of the fact that feel devalued even if it does not really meant to be.. it is kinda weird.. but i think i is man's nature to feel bad when it comes to arguments..

Yes I feel bad after starting argument or competing argument. I dont like doing the argument because now life is short and no time for love so how people can take the time for argument.

I feel bad if I argue even if I'm wrong. I'm an extremely short tempered person who seldom admits mistakes. And yeah everytime I have arguments, if the fault is on my part and I argue, I feel bad but other than that I don't. Often arguments are necessary to know what people opposite to you are really thinking. And often midway I realise that I'm arguing without any logic and then I just feel like laughing but somehow manage to turn the argument on some other topic :P

Not a all. I Only argue when i know I'm right, and I control my emotions. Others often lose it, but I just laugh. Why should I feel bad when I'm right, and their raving? LO

I don't feel bad after an argument. I feel closer to my man because we have aired our feelings. And gotten closer to each other. If two people are good about being open when they are mad and accepting each others point of view, and argument can be a freeing experience.

I would change what I am doing. There are ways to discuss something that does not end in an argument. Disagreements are part of life. You will never get to a point where you do not disagree on something. But how you handle it, is what is important. Do you handle it by getting angry and shouting? That's bad. Find a different way.

There are some times that I do feel bad after I've had an argument with someone for the simple fact that there are times that we end up having arguments with people over something that is completely stupid. However, there are other times that we end up having an argument with someone and there really is a reason for it. In those situations, I might be upset that I had an argument with someone, but I don't really feel bad about the fact that we had an argument.

I am only in an argument with my husband. Yes, I really feel bad whenever we have arguments. Who wants to be in one in the first place? You see, each of us are different in views and opinions. And when you don't agree with each other, there is conflict and an argument starts. Sometimes, you really get hurt and start to hurt the other person. But I think if we could be more understanding,patient and respectful to other people, I guess there will be less arguments in this world.

I agree with you totaly but i don't feel bad everytime! Actually there has been phases where an argument has resulted in my favour. Like I mean sometimes arguments help me put my point of view forward and which is later appreciated!