Losing virginity before marriage is good or not

Though it is important, that is not the major thing in marriage. Just be honest w/ your wife to be and if she accepts it just means that she loves you for what you are. We do mistakes in the past but that should not keep you from moving forward.

hello manojkrs, well if you are a guy i think it's not a big deal loosing your virginity as they say " I am a man if i give my body to anyone it's not a big deal after all" but if this saying will apply to a girl sad to say everyone will think she is a B***** but for me if you can preserve your virginity it's good loosing it will always be our choice. But some people say that it is a different if your partner is a virgin especially girls, but it does mean that if you are not a virgin anymore there will be less love i don't think so your partner will love you because of who you are and not because you have this big letter V on your body. have a nice day

I am glad that I had lost it when I was not quite 17...there was a boy that I loved from afar and I just took the opportunity. I wanted it to be with someone I liked because I knew it would hurt, and I didn't not want fond memories.

i don't think virginity is a big issue in marriage. the most important thing is love. i remember i have asked something about virginity and marriage on here. let me check it out.... after 5 minutes... http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1626722.aspx

I think it is up to ther individual person although i must point out that saving yourself for marriage is a rather modern idea go back 500 years to acient Rome and men inparticular it was not expected at all

I'm not sure if it 's good or bad. I think it depends on whatever culture you grew up in. I grew up in a collectivist community - traditional views and thoughts on topics like virginity. I guess it really depends on one's own thoughts as well. For me, I haven't really found someone I really, really love, so I still have my virginity haha.

I lost my virginity when I married. It just all depends on your moral standing and what you feel is best at the time. Experience before marriage is the theme of the times. People can be very exciting about such an undertaking and still wait. Being prepared for being sexually active is important and wise.

actually as for me it would be better to loose your virginity after marriage. because honestly we all want to give our virginity to the man who will love and stick to us till the end of time, we dont want to give it to the wrong person or something. there is no harm in waiting for the right time well this is just my opinion everything still depends on you

I tend to think that virginity have nothing to do with how happy a marriage can be...males are usually not virgin when they get marry...to me some people make a very big deal about virginity...I just ask myself what's the point?...and no I would not share with any one when and how I lost my virginity that is private! and very rude to ask.

I saved my virginity until I was 18. I was date raped and I was so upset to have that taken from me. I don't know if saving your virginity for marriage is important or not, but it should be saved for someone special and not taken from a person as it was taken from me.

Welcome to mylot I was married in 1966 and i was 23 then, i was virgin It is good if some body remain vigin till his marriage because he certainly expects his wife to be a virgin.. Thanks for sharing Cheers. God bless you, have a nice day ahead. Professor ‘Bhuwan’. .

i dont think its bad. i was 18 and it was my first real boyfriend as i had never been very popular with boys. i think these days it is very rare that anyone are virgins before they get married.

hello, I am much careful in virginity because I wont my future husband take it to me. I don't want to lose my virginity because I am afraid of my husband not to accept that I am not pure when he get me. I just want to be respected with my husband that is why I am really careful with it. and actually as of now that I am 20 I am very proud that I am still a virgin. hope it help.

I lost my virginity when i was in college at age 19, My boyfriend and I was having fun with his friends. I never drink with them i just have good conversations with their girlfriends too but when his friends and their girlfriends went home and I was about to go home too he let me drink a juice before he will drive me home. After that he take my virginity away. After that he promised me for a marriage but as time past by he is becoming worst and have lots of girls on her side. he became a two timer. The worst thing is he always promise things he never do and when i came back from a trip and went to his apartment with my two friends we saw him with a woman on top of him and when he saw me he followed me to the kitchen and i told him to stay away from me but then i accidentally stubbed him with a knife And run away with my car and have my first accident and i got injured. Got problems with my eyes right now. I thought i am going to be blind After that moment he came asking for forgiveness. Asking me to comeback to him but I didn't. As we broke up and never see him for a while and when i saw him he is with a wheelchair. Until now i didn't forgive him. Now I have my boyfriend, before i accept him in my life i told him everything and he also became honest to me. That he also wants to have me as virgin. I cried that moment because i know of my mistake and can't give him that. he cried too. But he came to me and he said he love me no matter what, we are going to stat new life. That he will love me no matter what. Now am 24 and we are planning to get married this coming december. For those people, It is true the only thing you can give as a gift to your husband is your virginity, however you can't compare true love with that virginity.

During the past centuries, losing your virginity means a lot. However, people change. In my opinion whether it is bad or not depends on how someone view life. That's whether word conservative gets in. However, we also have the word free liberated which the total opposite of this first one. Actually, humans think that something is bad depends on how a group view it. If majority disagrees, it is bad. It would be better if both them is virgin, the man and the woman. It would be unfair if the man looks for someone virgin if he himself is not.

Hi. manojkrs291. When it happens at a young age it is no way of turning back. I lost my virginity to an azz hole when I was 16. I hate to talk about him because he is a nasty slime ball! I wished that I had never met him and I wished that I could have saved my virginity for a man that was at least worth it. That man should have been my husband. When I met my husband he was a virgin. I was his first, and I appreciated this too.

Loosing your virginity is a matter of choice. It doesn't really make a marriage any better or any worse. Loss of virginity or not does not change the kind of person you are or how your relationship will be.

well i am sorry that your girl friend made you lose your virginity it not right to losee it if your not ready and it should be with the one that you want to spend that rest of your life with and i hope you use protection

Losing virginity before marriage is not good. Everybody like to marry a partner with 100% virginity. I got married ten years before. But I didn't have lose my virginity at the time of my marriage.

It seems losing virginity before marriage is like a cheap girl, except if you are forced or raped some like that.