so sad

@jpaxxx21 (170)
Singapore
March 18, 2011 9:40am CST
i have a friend. and i don't know if right now, i can still call her such. i've known her for 6 years. Now, we are staying under one roof, i saw how she treats other people. Sometimes, when she doesn't feel like talking to a flatmate, she will confide to me about it & say negative things against the person. And when she is okay with the person, she will be normal again. I don't know how to deal with her anymore. for 2 years, I have dealt with her attitude. I know behind my back, she has said things against me too. I know because another friend of mine has told me about it. Now, i want to transfer place. I wish i never had her as a flatmate, we could have been friends till now. Familiarity breeds contempt :(
2 responses
@adnileb (5276)
• Philippines
18 Mar 11
That is NOT a friend anymore. How bad of her to treat people like that. I think your idea to transfer place is much better. It's better off alone than be with someone as rude as her.
@jpaxxx21 (170)
• Singapore
18 Mar 11
i know..i wish it is that easy.. :(
@adnileb (5276)
• Philippines
19 Mar 11
Well yes, we can tolerate some bad attitudes of our friends.. But I guess not THAT kind of badness..
19 Mar 11
people.. have bad and good side to them.. just because he or she has a bad attitude doesnt mean you will stop being his/her friend..
• United States
18 Mar 11
That stinks! I hate when a friend does not turn out to be who you thought she was. I wish you luck in moving.
@jpaxxx21 (170)
• Singapore
18 Mar 11
i wish it is that easy to find a place... but they say don't make decisions based on emotions so maybe i will just stay.. sob!