How can I Forget Him?
@hazeljoymilloria (44)
Philippines
March 19, 2011 6:54am CST
6 years ago, I met a guy and eventually fall in love with each other. Our relationship lasted for 3 1/2 years. We were happily in-love though far from each other. Sadly, it ended because of me. I had a relationship with another guy but it did not last long, and i haven't felt the love that i felt with my first love. Months after I started a communication with him because all those time I seek for him but I'm afraid that he might not accept me again after the pain that I caused him. A year or more had passed and I saw him with another girl. I was very hurt then that I even cried in front of my cousins, friends, and sibling in the middle of a disco in our town. Every time i see them I really can't help looking at them and be jealous. Now, it's been more than a year that their together but here I am still so much in love of him and hoping that someday we will be together again. Am I being too ambitious? or do I have to accept that it's all over now? But how can I move on if all I can think of is him? Please help me what to do :(
5 responses
@sunita64 (6469)
• India
19 Mar 11
Once you have hurted someone then it is impossible to start again specially if he has moved on in life. The only way to forget is to stop while you are thinking of the person and move on in life with someone else.Stopping your mind is possible if you start meditating for at least 10 minutes.
@hazeljoymilloria (44)
• Philippines
19 Mar 11
thank you sunita. do you think it will really work? hmmm.. i have tried to forget him many times but i did not succeed. . maybe i just have to wait for he right time and for the right guy who can make me forget him.
@hazeljoymilloria (44)
• Philippines
19 Mar 11
Thank you Brightsky. that's exactly what i'm doing with my life right now. I'm now focusing on looking for a job to prepare for my future and have the best life that i can possibly have. :)
@gianne (2)
• Philippines
18 Apr 11
i felt sad after reading your story..your situation is so hard..some people realizes how important their loveones are, after they've lost them..all i can say is, accept the fact that you made a mistake, and he already moved on..if you really love him, then be happy for him..i know it hurts like hell, but there's nothing we can do..i know someday, you'll find another him, or maybe better..who'll love you more than anything..be happy, keep smiling..=]
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
14 Apr 11
Girl you need to talk with your guy, who knows he is just feeling the same way as you do.
@raviteja_ravi84 (2620)
• India
14 Apr 11
Well if you think you can move on then you would have done that a long time ago. But since you have grown so attached to him i think it would be really hard for you to do that right now. I think you have grown so used to him and basically can't live without him.
I think you should go back to him and explain how you feel. Saying sorry is very hard indeed but if you love him that becomes easy. try to forgive yourself and let him know how special he is for you. if he can see that then i am sure that he would want you back too. Don't walk away from him now else you might spend the rest of your life regretting about this...
Cheers!
I think you should go back to him and explain how you feel. Saying sorry is very hard indeed but if you love him that becomes easy. try to forgive yourself and let him know how special he is for you. if he can see that then i am sure that he would want you back too. Don't walk away from him now else you might spend the rest of your life regretting about this...
Cheers!
@kekenFilipinas (9)
• Philippines
20 Mar 11
hi..just read your post..and i feel like responding your .. :) anyways..forgetting someone is to find someone..^_^ i know its hard especially in your situation that still you had feelings for the guy...but its a matter of time and choice..in every actions that we have done has its own corresponding consequences...and we should all accept it and take responsibilities..all things happen for a reason..for us to learn and ponder things... and its up to us on how are we going to handle it..Life after all is a matter of choice and decision making...Take it as a new experience and challenge in your life as you grew up and as a learning experience that makes you more stronger..I know everything will be fine after all...thank you.. :)
