Celebrity crushes, healthy??

hi there, i think it is just normal. i had friends who were like that too but then when they started dating other guys, they have already forgotten about their celebrity crushes and to think they were like obsessed with them during high school hehehe. so i think it is just normal....

You should advice your friend that she won't be happy if she still continue to love the famous person.

It sounds a little like your friend is obsessed with the person. I'm sure a lot of people have dreamed about being married to a movie star but a normal person will quickly return to reality. Your friend seems to be having trouble grasping reality. Hopefully, this behavior will wear off in time and she will get on with her life instead of living in a fantasy world. I would try to point out some facts to her, like that she will never meet the celebrity in any normal way that would lead to a relationship. Also, celebrities live in a different world. Their peers are other celebrities, people of fame and fortune. They aren't going to be interested in any common person not involved in their lifestyle. Believing that they would is just a fairy tale type fantasy and not the reality of human nature. Your friend needs to look at things logically. She may not even like the person if she actually spent time with him. After all she only knows his public persona. The "image" the person projects through their work, not what the person is actually like in real life. All you can do is try to get her to grasp the facts of the situation and not obsess with fantasy.

So as long as she does not completely obsess like think that he belongs to her and or withdraws from any friend activities to follow all sorts of this person happenings I would say no it is okay. But you are right to refrain and wonder because we hear all the time where some get so obsessed they become celebrity stalkers. I honestly do not see it as a warning sign of any kind, so that you should continue to keep an eye for any of the above. If so then some sort interventions may be needed.

I used to get crushes on celebrities when I was younger. There are now also some beautiful actresses that I love to watch. Falling in love with a celebrity is a little off the hook. I do not think it is healthy, but maybe it is just a crush. You can't love someone without knowing who they really are. Actors and Actresses play a part in a movie or a TV show. They are not those people. Try and help your friend focus on herself and look for someone more obtainable.

It is healthy to have crushes even to celebrities. However, it is not healthy anymore if one constantly thinks of his or her crush to the point of thinking of marrying the person in the future. Be careful and give more guidance to your friend. This might lead to delusions in the coming years. So, at present you should tell your friend that it is ok to have celebrity crushes but she has to balance it with the reality.

Hi Thatgirl13, If it is just a crush that is fine but this seems a bit excessive really. Introduce her to some real available guys rather than her waste her time dreaming of someone that is unavailable. Huggles. Ellie :D

I know when I was hgrowing up I had crushes on some of favorite singers and some athletics. I just grew out of them! Lots of people go through this stage and just grow out of it! Maybe your frind will to! I would worry if you freind gets obsessed with this celebrity and loses her sense of reality about this person! People have been known to do this and become stalkers! I don't want to scare you but maybe none of this will happen with your friend! For now just try not to tell her to stop dreaming and put up with her talking about this person all the time! If it gets worse then I would worry about it!

He he he he L.O.L. There really isn't much you can do for her as far as I advice I really don;t know what to tell you because I have had celebrity crushes but they always passed you know I soon forgot about them and I really don't have any celebrity crushes anymore, maybe it will fade for it like it did me? Good Luck with that wish I could be of more help but I really don't know what to say other than I already mentioned sorry

This friend of mine used to have a crush on the lead singer of a local band, not exactly a celebrity, but close. We got to speak to him once and she freaked out so badly that I wanted to hide under the floor. The poor guy seemed literally frightened of her. Soon after that, she got over him and developed a crush on somebody else. So, I don't think it's that unhealthy...

Don't worry there will come a time when she would be having a boyfriend and she'll get over it. There are people who just can't differentiate infatuation and fanaticism so be cautious about your friend too.

Hi friend,Your friend is in teenage and her feelings for that celebrity is not love but just attraction.She will definately realise this thing when she will get a true love from somebody in real world.Right now she is too young to understand this things.You should advice her to meet that celebrity maybe she will understand that this is just a attraction but not love.Many of my friends and even me had crush on celebrities in teenage.Now we have great luaghing session when we reminds our crush on celebrities.

Wow. It definetely not healthy if she`s obsessing over this celebrity. I mean you cant love someone that you`ve never met and connected with. How is she even gonna meet him? She needs to wake up like you said. I mean it`s not impossible, but celebrities lifestyles are different, marry people, divorce after a year or two. She needs to get over you pairing him with female celebs because it can happen. As for knowing anyone like that, no. My girlfriend sometimes tells me this celeb is hot or that celeb is hot, but I know it isnt serious. So, yeah.

I think it's fine as long as she does realize that having a future with this celebrity is extremely unrealistic. It's fine to fantasize and have a crush, but it shouldn't affect your dating life. For instance, she shouldn't seclude herself in hopes of one day ending up with this celebrity. I think other than that it's kind of like any obsession people have. It shouldn't consume your life, but it's not a problem as long as it's regulated. And no, I don't have anyone near me with this kind of thing. I've never met someone who entertains actual fantasies about being with a certain celebrity.