Sometimes I feel as if I am disliked so much by many people.

I always think that the older i get,the more childish i am.Little did i think you are the same!I know i cannot be liked by all the people around me,so i do what i like,just keep healthy and safe,not get in trouble,try my best to work well and manage my life day to day,that's all.

haters often hate 'cause they're jealous. heck,i have a few people who hate me for no other reason than they hate a friend of mine.they don't even know me! i wouldn't expend one more ounce of energy on them than required.because that's what they want.for it to bother you.

I went through a stage in my life when people turned against me because of lies made by an old friend but things turned my way in the end, I am a strong believer in truth but it is a shame many just keep on telling lies and I don't know why they do it as usually they get found out anyway...

Now tell me, what in the world could people have heard that is negative about a pretty yellow flower? Why do people make trouble for you. Do you have a sign on your back or something? Some women do have jealousy issues. That is their cross to bear. I have social anxiety. I am a very sensitive person. I have become very picky about who I go around and who I let in. I have had some very negative experiences and some very positive. I find family is where it's at.

Hello cream97, People are afraid of someone that has confidence in who they are, also people don't like to hear the truth when they say the truth hurts it's really true, I tend to tell the truth too much myself, I have learned that people just don't want to hear it, so maybe you should just keep some things to yourself, let people find thier own way cause in all reality they have to learn for themselves all though we may think we are doing a good thing sometimes it's just best to keep our opinions to ourselves. When you try to help others by pointing out faults or things you think may work a little better they see you as thinking you know everything or worse thinking you feel you are better than they are, you may get one or two that may actually appreciate where you are coming from, but others will not appreciate it, so just observe and wish them well and thank you god you are in a different mind set than they are and live your life and let them live thiers JMO

There is no standard for right or wrong, so just do what you think is right and be yourself. If you care about other people's viewpionts, just find a appropriate time and talk with them sincerely. I think it will take effect.

You are not alone cream. i feel that way, i am generally not the greatest person nor the prettiest person but i feel like some people just do not like me. hahaha I admit i have done wrong to some people but it was unintentionally sometimes it happens and i cannot force them to forgive and forget..but it created distance between us, me and those acquiantances. I may never be real friends with them again and i have accepted that fact. At work i know there are also some who dislike me probably because i am not scared of them nor i am insecure, they are the ones who feel insecure when i am in the office lol for i know what i am doing and i know i am good at what i do and that i know i can do when i set my mind into it. So most of the time people get aloof at me because of that. But i learned to ignore it as long as i am happy, i make my family happy and i know i am not doing anything wrong now, i am okey with that.

Hi cream97, I think as long as you are true to yourself you should not worry about the haters. If they can't be your friend you are probably better off without them. I am a very strong person, so I will give anyone a chance to be friends, but if there is any indications that they don't want to be friends, oh well, I move on. It can be as simple as that, but you have to be confident that you can live without all the drama in your life. If you don't feed a fire more wood it will eventually die out. You should act as if these people don't exist; then watch, they will think something is wrong with you because you are not caring about how they feel about you. You have to believe that this group of people do not make you who you are, head up, shoulders back, walk on.

You got the answer to your question, dear. They do not want to do something about you because you can easily outshone them. Though these people are pathetic and sao insecure but you have to face the fact that there are people who are like this. What you can do is give yourself some peace of mind. Don't try to rekindle whatever good relationships you had with them. They tainted it, right? They are lucky that yo have learned to forgive them. Let them go their own way and do not try to mingle your life with them again.Learn your lesson from your past. There are a lot of people around you who truly appreciate and value you for who and what you are. Don't force yourself on those who don't even want to give you a space in their lives. You don't need them, dear. You are doing good or doing better without them. So, don't be scared. You'll be fine.

Well, If they dont like and you think you have done wrong then move on, you can still have friends. You cannot stop people being judge mental and you can't please everybody dear don't try everything to please others for it will never happen one way or another someone will be against you. Just live a positive life

Yes this is rely can make any one shameful just for the people's wrong thinking. people do not try to know the original truth about a person instead off what they heard, it is very painful. But if you know that you are right then know one can make you disliked to your own self.

Wow! you couldnt have said it any better, I feel the same exact way as every sentence you typed. People alway make a misconception of me because of something they heard or feel like they know about me by looking at me. Women are definitely intimidated by me. I see it in their eyes and feel it from their body language when I walk into the room. All of the people who are close to me and truly know me know that I am a very generous considerate person but people outside my circle pass judgement. Women off the rip assume that I am interested in their men because their men are interested in me. People assume that because I look like a model live from a magazine that I am conceited but I am very humble and it took me years out of my life to start to feel confident about me and my slender build. Trust me sweetie I have walked in your shoes. I do everyday and with the people who I have forgiven who are still being stubborn I let them be. I done my part and I can say that. If they don't want to have anything to do with me I just let them be and do me. The haters are countless but its something I'm starting to get use too. I am tired of being the target of other women's anger because they aren't satisfied with them selves. They make me out to be the problem because when they look at me they remember the problem they have within themselves. They stir up trouble with me and say mean things. When I ask whats the problem really is and what they have against me and they can't give me a legitiment excuse for what I did to make them so upset I realize that its personal and they are just a hater.

In my opinion everybody is disliked by someone. It is just relax.. don't worry about those people. being around people who like you is much better.When i get to know that somebody who is around me dont like me I jus walk away from them and that is it. nobody is perfect and there are all kind of people all over the world.I really understand what is going on with you ! I lived the same situation. enjoy yourself!

If they don't like you who cares. Just be yourself. You have a lot more important things to do, don't mind them. They are just so insecure of what you have accomplished. Just believe in yourself anyway you have your family who loves and believe you, that's the most important things. Go on, do what you think is good and be happy. Live your life to the fullest never mind those people who are trying to put you down, they will not succeed. Concentrate on your work and be focus on your dreams. aim high.

Sorry that people are hurting you. I know that people do that. Sometimes many at the same time. Sometimes people hurt us, and they have no intention of hurting us, but it happens. Of course, sometimes our face, attitudes and expressions communicate the wrong message to people, and actually makes them nervous or pushes them away.

Knowing what you are doing wrong would take a whole lot more than just a paragraph. Who knows it might not be you it might be them. Some people are jealous and some people are too conceited. I wish I knew you better lol. The bigger your circle of friends is the more room there is for rumors and gossip and things that start trouble. It's best to try and find out who your real friends are and just stay away from the rest.

I understand I also feel that way sometimes but I realized it's not my fault. We cannot please every one. It's not our fault if some people hate us. So, I don't care it they don't like me as long as I know I'm not a bad person and I'm not hurting anyone. Don't mind them just make sure you are not doing anything wrong. Be happy always