against all odds

Philippines
March 20, 2011 8:21am CST
Who of you here had experience loving someone with all your heart but none of your family member like your love one? How can you fight for him? what are the things you gonna say to make them accept him? i really love this guy but i don't know how can i fight for him? what are the things i must do to accept him? I REALLY DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO..WILL I PURSUE THIS? or will i give up? I'm happy with him and i love him so much. My dear friends.. please help me with this..im so bothered :(
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3 responses
• India
27 Mar 11
hi i am from india. my name is rahul. i wana tell you my story i love to whom girl i mean me and my girlfriend are very closely relative. she is daughter of my mother`s sister. our family membeer know about us now we cant meant in thier knoledge. we are live so far we had meet just three time in three year for just min now i am not going to her home because our parents are stop thier relation also. i am a student and i have just 1-2 year for get her. i am study and and i will try to any part time job well i am also try to find any online earning source which help me to get her because if our parents know that we love each other at that time also the they will really try to stop us becaus before 18 month they know about us and then they think now we forget each other but we are love each other and try to meet for meet i have to get money cuz for her i have to leave my home and every thing and she have also do this.
@EdnaReyes (2622)
• Philippines
23 Mar 11
I been there once and the only thing that made my family believed that he deserved me was to marry him, we lived separately with my parents and tried our best to provide and fend for ourselves. We did that, we succeeded cause my husband knew I am with him all the way. It is simple but with many pains and perseverance,too.
• Philippines
23 Mar 11
I've been in the same situation when I had my first boyfriend. Everybody in the family doesn't want him for me. I fought for the relationship and after 3yrs something went wrong..My family was right in a way. MAYBE, when we are in love we are really blinded and we don't see the real actions of our loved ones. Ask your family first and ask them the reason why they don't want him for you,give them the right to explain.