I am Going to depart my close friend?
By ajith_kumar
@ajith_kumar (721)
India
March 22, 2011 11:29am CST
Yes, I am going to depart one of my close friend, She helped me in many situation.She is very caring.She supported me in many situation.I really like her very much.She is my colleague ,Yes we both work in the same office.From next week,she will not come to office,
Because she is going to quit this job next week.I bought a brand new gift for her.But I don't know whether we can meet after that.Soon, she will get married and I think that is the last moment in our life.Even though if we meet ,we cannot get this golden moment that we had in our office.And those moments are unforgettable moment in our life. What a life is this,But what ever happen ,life has to go on right.In this life we meet so many people,But only few people make us cry when they depart,She is one among them,Have you ever felt sad in these kind of situation.what do you do in these kind of situation.How will manage their loss.
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5 responses
@sameer_1984 (215)
• India
23 Mar 11
Well friend life is all about moving on.I have made so many good friends in my life so whenever one departs there is a new one in the list.That doesn't mean I forget my close friends who departs.Well you will definately get new friend to fulfill place of this friend.Just look arround there many nice people in the world chose one of them as your friend.
Happy mylotting.
@tiffnkeat (1673)
• Singapore
23 Mar 11
I know you are sad, but I would like to challenge you to be happy. How many people pass through life like you having found a very close friend. Furthermore, she is going to be married. You should be happy for her. Why not get to know her husband as well and continue to be good friends? I am sure she will tell her husband that you are a close fiend of hers too.
It is when friends depart because friendship is broken that we should feel sad. In your case, the friendship can still be maintained, unless there are constraints. Wishing you well.
@dreamy1 (3811)
• United States
23 Mar 11
Yes I have but unfortunately they said they would keep in touch but didn't. That's when you know when your real friends are. I was disappointed when I emailed them and they never responded. In my case these "friends" moved back to their home countries including myself but I still wanted to keep in touch through email or IM. I still have old friends I keep in touch with but not as much now as before.
You will meet new co-workers that's just how things go. You will have fond memories of your friendship and hopefully you will remail friends for years to come.
@cream97 (29086)
• United States
22 Mar 11
Hi. ajith_kumar. I am very sorry to hear about your friend.
It is very sad that she is going to be leaving and getting married too. Maybe you two can still keep in touch by letters, phone calls, email messages, social networking sites and postcards too. It is not very easy to leave a friend that you have cared for behind. You will just have to take it one day at a time. It won't be easy at first, but as time goes by, things will get better for you. Take care. And try not to worry yourself too much.
It is very sad that she is going to be leaving and getting married too. Maybe you two can still keep in touch by letters, phone calls, email messages, social networking sites and postcards too. It is not very easy to leave a friend that you have cared for behind. You will just have to take it one day at a time. It won't be easy at first, but as time goes by, things will get better for you. Take care. And try not to worry yourself too much.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
22 Mar 11
I guess she's not going somewhere.
I know it won't be the same again since she is getting married and having friendship with men/women maybe quiet not accepted in your society.
Here in my country it won't make any difference coz women can still work after the wedding and stays with friends same way as before when she's not married.
In your case,she will always be your friend,that won't change.
