having a shoulder to cry on! do you have yours?
By khelsz
@khelsz (6)
Philippines
March 23, 2011 4:21am CST
having a true and honest friend is the hardest part of our life. Sometimes we think that the circle of friends we have now are those whom you can lean on, cry on or run to in times that you need them. But it really hurts expecting those people whom you trust are the one who can turn you down and the first one who refuse you in giving you a helping hand or an ear to listen to or either a shoulder to cry on. What would you do if your best friend or your friend you think can help you will disappoint you? :(
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8 responses
@maikokimberly (91)
• Philippines
24 Mar 11
yes, I have a guy bestfriend that is so thoughtful and caring, he's there when I want to cry and among my friends, he's the only who saw me cried :)
@raviteja_ravi84 (2620)
• India
24 Mar 11
It's been kinda hard for me to have such good friends. I would consider you the luckiest person on earth if you have such a friend for life and he/she would do almost anything for you. Friends like that are really rare and we don't get to see them much often in real life. It's only in movies that i see such stuff going on.
I also had such a friend once but he left me soon as his parents had shifted away to another place for the time being and we have been separated ever since then. I really miss him a lot and i want to see him now.
Relish the moment you are in right now. You will not get such moments again and again!
Cheers!
@lynnemg (4529)
• United States
23 Mar 11
I have a few, very few people that I talk to when I am really upset or just need to let it all out. We don't live near each other, so we talk on the phone from time to time. It is nie to know that they are there for me, but since I don't talk to them very often, I also find other ways to vent when I need it, usually through writing.
If any one of these people were to stop being there for me, I am sure that I would be upset, but I also know that I could still get through my problems on my own.
@kukueye (1759)
• Malaysia
24 Mar 11
All friendship is base of mutual understanding and hence i use u and u use me in the acceptable level.Using each other in good terms means helping each other.Accepting each other mean understanding each other needs and level of trusts and hence expecting too much on the friendship will burden the realtionship and will not last long.So better know your level of friendship and not expect too much hence better for long term relationshp in friendship.Friendship is good for those days when u need help and companionship
@luckyling21 (88)
• China
24 Mar 11
Life is full of lots of up and downs .eveyone needs a shoulder to cry on,every one needs a friend to rely on.find the people that you trust.don't be disappointed.see things through roase - colored spectacles.
@umabharti (3972)
• India
23 Mar 11
hi,everone needs a friend to be with and to share everything.No one in this earth will be without a friend,and god also gives chances and many friends we by our ignorance we lose the trust and the best friend of us.It happens in the every relation of life.Sometimes we dont even know why such things happen to us, why we do some things to spiol our relation .May be some enemies like anger,mistrust,other bad things do this spoiling the relation.I lost many becox of my badluck.i knw i will never get those wonderful days which i lost and the wonderful people who came to help me always and were there when i was in bad time.Now also or throughout the life we have ups and downs we get frinds to help us in bad time as well as we loose them also.Its very hard to have everyone with us forever.
@cmang83 (285)
• Malaysia
23 Mar 11
I never try this before but i believe it will be very painful for me. The person that i think i can trust become someone that i can't trust. Very disappinted.
But after disappointed, i will think what is the main reason the friend dont want to help me. Is it because of my problem or certain reason make him/her can't help me. I will think, we as our friend's friend, we should understand their situation too.