Male or Female?
By bussyien
@bussyien (134)
Indonesia
March 23, 2011 4:44am CST
I am a female. Born as a female, of course, I have many responsibilities that male has not. For example: pregnant, breast feeding, etc. I was scare that I can not do it well, remembering I am not yet feel it. You know, sometimes I think that more easy being a male. Male just have responsibilities to take care of his family and he does not pregnant and does not know how it feel. But, above it all, when I realize everything about my life and about God's trust that give me a valuable opportunity to be a female, I am proud being a female.
4 responses
@BeachLover (520)
• India
24 Mar 11
Thanks for providing a smile on my face. Because at certain point of time we all feel unhappy with what we already have. Do you think its right? I know you would accept my idea. By not accepting our current status or in this case gender, we are insulting the God and his decision. He has strong reason for creating each one of us.
So, just be happy with what you have. Nothing to be sorry and its good that you said that you are a proud female. Just be like that. You won't like to hear what are demerits of being male. Keep smiling.
@Senual (8)
• India
25 Mar 11
You are right my friend as i think about it as to how difficult it would be to be a woman, i feel the pain what a woman goes through in her entire life.
She needs to take care of the house as well as the family and also work outside the house and then in the house as well. Its a woman who takes all the blame for the wrong things done by her children but still smiles and bears it because its her children.
She might be physically weak than a man but mentally strong enough to boost her husband's confidence to live life once again when the man has lost all the hopes.
Man is ready to do anything to keep his family happy and Woman does everything to keep her family happy!!!
I respect woman for these reasons because i know i cannot be what they are.
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@kalyani1234 (637)
• India
23 Mar 11
Of course you should be proud that you are a female, I am too :)
Unlike males, we do have much more responsibilities and trying times such as pregnancies, deliveries etc. etc. but then that is why God has also provided us with more beauty, resilience, intuition and understanding than a male! I think that compensates for our other pains and troublesome times!
Another way to look at it would be that, you can always shed tears to get something done or to get out of a tight situation (hey feminists, don't blame me for sounding too feminine here, but it does work, believe me :))
Also, your chair gets pulled out for you or are offered a seat on the bus etc. etc. there are just so many good aspects of being a female!
@Oldsix691418 (3872)
• China
23 Mar 11
Yes,if the people on earth were all male,the world would not be properous and colourful but lifeless.And since there exist the female,our life becomes so spiritful and vivid.Both the male and the female have their different responsibilities,neither of them can shirk responsibilities,then the world will be beautiful.
