What usually you do when your feelings got hurt??

hello mods, I can't remember how many times my friends hurt me but still i tried my best not to quit i treated them like a family every possible why i did to communicate with them but it seems useless because they really don't want to talk to me with the reason i don't know and it hurts much because i am beginning to be paranoid thinking all the things i've done and all the words i've said what did i do wrong? I just think that maybe they are busy ( always an excuse) but i still have friends who love me much i go out with them make every moment memorable. happy mylotting

Hi. mods196621. I am very sorry that your friend has hurt you by ignoring you and giving you the cold shoulder. If this had to happen to me, I would approach them kindly about it and tell them how it has made me feel. I would not hold my hurt in any longer. If they are still worth being my friend, then I will accept them back as my friend. If not, then I will just move on and not have anything to do with them any longer.

Maybe he thought you're high maintenance that's why he avoided you. Many people don't like others who are high maintenance, it's time-consuming to hang out with people like that. You should show him that you're not like that.

When someone hurt me, be it a friend or a family member, I just let the time pass till my emotions are back to normal and talk to the person involved. Most of the time I just sulk in the corners of my room thinking of what have been the reason why I was hurt or why did that someone hurt me. After we have talk and understand the situation, we can be good friends again. I don't want to keep ill feeling with others, as much as possible I want all differences be solved at once.

sounds like you really like/liked him. I'm not sure if his girlfriend came before or after he met you. In my case, I've never had a situation where i just told all my feeling and shared my emotions with a guy that i actually liked and wanted to be a potential boyfriend. But If I was in this position I would just move on from there. I'm sure it is tuff, but pain won't last but so long. so good luck with everything.

Im happy you finally said goodbye. Having courage to do that is really impressive.

It happeend to me also I have a special friend in FB and we got along well online. We lived in separate country and we understand each other. We have a nice communication going on for maybe a whole week. I though we already established strong bond even not the romantic kind but just a friendship thing. However he started to drift apart from me because he is addicted with playing online games, Dota and he seemed to have no time for me anymore. I really felt hurt and neglected because I treated him special. I was thinking I am special too in his life, but that stupid game is much important in his life than me. So even if it is sad on my part I no longer chat with him and not even say hi and hello to him. But he will always have a special place in my heart.

i'm sorry for you,but in the future you should confront the situation more agressively! and you should not confide in someone on the internet! don't spend your life on fb! go out,enjoy,there are a lot of people out there who could br your friends!

When i get my feelings hurt I usually don't like to be around alot of other people. It can make me depressed or angry and i don;t like to share that feeling with other people and bring them down as well. i also don't want anyone to see how much something they have said or done really bothers me. i try to keep it to myself and find a way to get past those bitter feelings and move on. Life is too precious to hold onto such harhness and resentment of having your feelings hurt.

I never face this situation before. But i was hurt before when i was in college. The girl that i like hate me and i knew it from my friend. I feel really sad and after i share the pain to my close friend, it's not work. I still feel the pain. Then i walked out from my home and hung around in near my housing area for around 1-2 hours. Just walked without purposes and direction. After 1-2 hours, i feel better. Since that experience, i will do the same thing when i feel not happy. Hope it will help you. Cheers.

I would suggest if you like them then just tell them. Sometimes people don't know how interested you are in them until you say something. Of course you shouldn't be afraid of rejection though because not everyone will fall in love with you. You just gotta be persistent just like anything else that's worth getting, you gotta give a little. What hurts me the most is kind of similar to this but in a different scenario. I have recently found this guy I like, and we met up at a few bars and had some drinks, and i made it a point that i was interested in him. He flirted but never really made a move, then a few weeks later out of no where, he was seeing someone else. I think it hurt more seeing them together, than hearing about it. Knowing that someone else was making him happy and it wasn't me. I felt like maybe i wasn't good enough for him.

If I can still smile after being hurt then I would. I don't wanna show the pain by crying. Haha. but I'm very verbal about it and most of the time I express the pain by being angry.:)

I am sorry for you. It is a sad story what i have just read. This happens a lot on the internet and not only. There are people that don't care about the relationship they build with others and they quite it very easy. What to do in this situation? Just learn from it and never get so fast close to anybody especially on the internet. Try to forget this so called friend and be more careful when you pick people to talk about.

I understand what you are feeling.. Just think the positive side of what happened and the lesson you have learned from him. Forget the moments you don't love and treasure the moments you became happy to him. I know its not easy because you are hurt but try it slowly and the pain will subside. Just remember this every time you feel the pain everything has a purpose and God has a greater plan on me.

Maybe he thought you're high maintenance that's why he avoided you. Many people don't like others who are high maintenance, it's time-consuming to hang out with people like that. You should show him that you're not like that.

Hi Mods, There are many persons like him who don't care about others, they will stay with us only till their work gets over. Many times i have got frustrated of my friends also but i try to continue the relationship with them. Now a days we should not believe easily in online, there are many persons just have relationship for time pass and hurt others. Don't worry, Be happy. You will find more good one than this guy.