why cant we forget our first love?

@anepal (37)
March 23, 2011 10:36pm CST
Is this happening to me or this happen to everyone i don't know. but i am unable to forget my First love of my life. it started 5 years ago and now when she is not around me physically but she is spinning around my head all the time. what can to do??please help me out of this ???
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@dznurani (160)
• Indonesia
24 Mar 11
I heard that girls cannot forget her first love, but for men? I think they will easily forget their first love :) time will help you, find someone else, go with your friends, do your activities, or go back to her :)
@anepal (37)
24 Mar 11
thanks mate for your suggestion...i'll try my best to get over her...
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
28 Mar 11
hi, i dont believe on first love cant forget it.,,,maybe it because i dont really feel better to be with that guy,and i think my lover now is my first love,because he have all attitude and things i really wish.
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
24 Mar 11
First love is an emotion that can hit us the hardest. i believe that is why we often can not forget a first love,. A piece of that love will always remain forever in our hearts.
@babyanna (1216)
• China
24 Mar 11
Hi,anepal! It is definitely not only happening to you.Many people can't forget their first love.For me,it even sounds more stupid.It was puppy love for me,back in primary school.Sometimes I do wonder if I really know what love is back then.But so far,he is the only one that I can't get over with.I felt painful when he got hurt and angry when others were talking at his back.Sometimes I think I have forgotten him completely.But then there I was,dreaming about him again. It won't be easy for you to get over.Time will heal your wounds and you will learn how to move on.Someday you will find the one that is suitable for you and then your first love will gradually fade out of your mind. Good luck,my friend.Wish you the best!
• United States
24 Mar 11
Any love is never truly forgotten. Whether it is first or third I suppose we still can remember. I believe we can get over them but have some recollection and memory of them. A new love usually replaces the feeling of not being able to forget and or course time and keeping busy.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
28 Mar 11
hi, i dont believe on first love cant forget it.,,,maybe it because i dont really feel better to be with that guy,and i think my lover now is my first love,because he have all attitude and things i really wish.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
24 Mar 11
I am not sure if first love might be the same with first crush of what we call in our younger days as puppy love. If it is the same then,i can say,i can't forget the person,but the feeling is gone already.
• India
24 Mar 11
Simple because it's first love and that's why! I too had a hard time forgetting my first love. It took me ages to forget her. But since she was the first girl who has been in my mind and my heart for a while i find it hard to forget her. She has taken a piece of my heart with her. Usually no one forgets if i am right. Even though i have a girlfriend now i still can't forget her! Cheers!
• Philippines
24 Mar 11
oh well its just normal to feel that way especially she's your first love but if ever it continues along the way then you have to think over for it. It might be you still love her or i don't know. Maybe there are just memories that you might not able to forget.