One of my best friends is not going that well

I'm sorry about your friend, I pray it isn't cancerous either. Just last night I found a friend, who I lost contact with last fall, that she had a brain tumor removed in January..I talked to her today and she said she had been doing great until yesterday and she said she over did it. I could hear in her voice how tired she was, so I just told her to call me when she is feeling better. I hope your friend has a quick recovery like my friend did..

Hello suspenseful, Wow this is so sad, I will say a prayer for your friends as well, sometimes things happen when we least expect it, but when it comes to people you care about getting sick its really hard, you wish there was something you can do to make things better but in all reality all we can do is be there for them and hope for the best. Lets pray that things are not as bad as they sound, I just recently got over a health scare myself, all these years never being hospitalized besides giving birth to my daughter, but when I went to the er and they said they were keeping me, I was really surprised at how well I handled things I am so much stronger than I give myself credit, and no matter what we have to believe that things will be o.k even when it does not seem that way. I wish your loved ones well, and hope that things will get better in the very near furture.

Well I know it is hard when dealing with friends that are going thru things like this. Sometimes it makes you wonder why, but you need to remember sometimes things happen for a reason even if we do not always want to agree. Hopefully this will just be something like a Cyst of something that can be taken care of and things will be OK but if it is Cancer just being there and being Strong and supportive for your friend like you were for your husband is a Big help as well.

I know how it feels. I had a number of family members die quickly right after my husband did. I do hope and pray that it is just a cyst and is not malignant. Her husband has a good partner in her to help him manage his diabetes.

Suspenseful, there is no illness that cannot be cured. Check out "You and Cancer" by author L'Afrique for tips on combatting cancer. As per diabetes: Diabetes, like high blood pressure, is not a sickness. Diabetes, often the disease of the obese, is a health condition that simply warns one one is consuming too much refined carbohydrates, which the body also converts into sugar. Like high blood pressure, diabetes can simply be taken care of by greatly cutting down on bleached flour products and other refined products while maintaining some form of daily exercise.

This is a very sad experience, I empathize with the situation. VERY HARD to accept but still this is the crucial times when both parties are tested, one being on the person involved in the situation and on the other, being a true friend who treasures friendship. YOu know, no one can predict the future of any one's life, but the greatest good side of it, are the people who unselfishly understands and continuously give support to a person who is in pain and undergoing the said crisis especially when health is at stake. NO ONE CAN BUY HEALTH even the most richest person in this world, only preventive measures can be done but life itself cannot be bought. THIS are the times, we closed our eyes and cry out with our hearts in pain on many questions why things have to be in the situation where the person is an important one for us. BUT,, I STILL BELIEVE in the power of PRAYERS that gives miracles more than what technology can do.. IN GOD, praying by heart can cure any pains and gives a relief of assurance in him will have the light and peace of mind we asked for, and in him, all these trials will be solved in his time and graces. This are the times, to favor more on the best quality time we can offer, reminisce and be strong by letting that person feel secured and comfortable. AN assurance, that you have imparted all the best you can offer and never looses strength but gaining more strengths to refill everything. A time to think that, the best thing GOD had gifted in us, are people who are meant for us to love and treasure for lifetime, presence may not be always there but in GODS miracle, everything will be fine in his hands. Though, she may suffer that denial stage but always leave a comfortable helping hand is the greater gift you can offer, a thing that cannot be bought but rendered as love and support for her.. This is only a trial in her life but as what we believe, for anyone who believes and have faith in GOD, never fears for all will be solved in his time..All we have to wait is do our part and lift everything in him.

I am so sorry and will add my prayers to yours for the best possible outcome. It's so hard to lose those that we love even though we know that they are going to a better place. Many cysts are benign so she has that going for her. I'll keep my fingers crossed and pray for her and for you.

I hope so, poor friend of yours. Do that, pray, I think the prayer have such a power even to just relief someone's pain wich the prayer is directed to.