Is it wrong for a guy to have more clothes and shoes than his lady??

United States
March 24, 2011 1:39pm CST
Ok well i have friends that come over all the time, and there always messing with me about me having more clothes than my wife.. The thing is i shop almost everyday because i like new stuff. But yea they are always telling me stuff about me having more shoes and clothes than her.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
25 Mar 11
I honestly think that if you are comfortable with having more clothes there is nothing wrong with it. You like to shop for new clothes and the newest fashion, so what does it really matter? It's your money and your life!
• United States
24 Mar 11
Hi aalomar21 and a warm welcome to myLot! I don't see anything wrong with it, so as long as you are not prioritizing clothes and shoes instead of financially paying household bills. Also if your wife is completely without then I would say huh, hmm. lol. Absolutely nothing wrong with it, I as a women have tons myself and my boyfriend not as much. But I do try to make sure that if I pick up something for me that I do so for him.
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
24 Mar 11
no i dont think so really. i have seen guys with lots of pairs of shoes and i dont think it matters, as long as your wife doesnt mind and you can afford to (which really is the key!)
• United States
24 Mar 11
It may not be the cultural norm, but I don't think there's anything wrong with it. I'm female, but I don't have hordes of clothes and shoes, so I don't see why a male is required to have less clothes than his female companion. If your friends are picking on you then it might just be all in good fun, otherwise they're not good friends.
• Philippines
24 Mar 11
I guess there's nothing wrong with that so long as you buy those things with your own money and is not charging your purchases to your wife. Also, those purchases to me is valid so long as it doesn't eat up too much of your family's budget. Some guys are way much vain than their wives and they normally have more fettish. It's ok to give in to them if you have lots of spare money to spend on them.
• Morocco
24 Mar 11
Of course not; especially in current time; in order to have a chance in the job market and to attract people you have to get the best clothes regularly.