Let me handle it....
By melvelasco
@melvelasco (356)
Philippines
March 24, 2011 3:08pm CST
I really admire those husband helping their wives for the household activity, Like what I observed to our neighbor Mr. cruz, He is a busy working in a cable station but when he got home i saw him still busy working at their home, I would say the wife's house work,...I know that not all man like this,most of a man I know is they let their wives do all the housework activities while they are just for the outside work activities, Have you observe some husband like this..?
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12 responses
@anepal (37)
•
25 Mar 11
Yes ofcourse I have observed so many times. My big brother does this everytime he is at home. He spends time with her and works in the kitchen helping her in her work. I really appreciate what he does and they are a very happy couple. Me too after marriage will do so..
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
24 Mar 11
I don't have a husband but my boyfriend and I live together now for five years. He does his own laundry, cooks, washes floors and does dishes. He works all day and from day one I felt really bad and asked why he does this because I am use doing it all.
He says to me that if he wanted a maid he would have gotten one. lol.. I am very appreciative and understand that he does so because he has lived alone and knows that as a man one must not be helpless. I do really appreciate it because I was married once before and I could not even get my ex-husband to throw out the trash or mow the lawn. In fact I couldn't get my ex to make sure he put his dirty laundry in the hamper.
But I raised my son to be just like my boyfriend to be self sufficient because you just never know when someday he will be alone and it is a sad situation when a man who can't do his own laundry is my thinking. Maybe that is why since my divorce my ex has been married 4 times and single again. lol
@melvelasco (356)
• Philippines
1 Apr 11
Gud to know you found a good boyfriend and helping you a lot... congratulation he is a big help.
@00BleedingShadow00 (784)
• Philippines
25 Mar 11
i just hope all husbands or boyfriends in the world is like that. it is just so sad that i have never seen my dad like that to our family. it is because he left us when i was just a baby. i am living right now with my partner and her family. i really admire his father because he takes care of us. i am grateful that i have known him. how i wish he is my real father.
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
25 Mar 11
Hi,
I do saw some husband really help up their wives in
house chores even after working for wholeday...really salute them,of course
the wives feel so good having such a loving and caring
husbands.
How I wish I will have one too. I don't say that my husband is not
good to me,he will help me in simple housechores sometimes like
putting clothes into washing machine and wash plates,of course, I
don't expect him to clean and mop the floor for me everyday,once a while,that
is fine.
SOmetimes, when I was sick,my husband will help me more in house
chores so that I can have a good rest.
I am blessed to have such a caring husband at my side. we walk through
happiness and sadness together.
@snyderblog (82)
• United States
24 Mar 11
I have a husband is like this. I feel very fortunate also. We both work all day and have 4 kids and 3 dogs. If he gets home before me he always starts the dishes or laundry. We both love to cook so that is an issue sometimes. I like to cook to unwind and so does he and sometimes we clash. We have even talked about him retiring and I can keep working. He is 10 years older than me and will retire first anyway. I wish I could afford for him to retire now. He likes housework more than me and is really better at it. I lucked out, I know it.
@melvelasco (356)
• Philippines
24 Mar 11
you are so lucky you found that kind of man, my husband only loves to cook, nothing else..But when it comes on his job he is work a holic.
@cutepenguin (6431)
• Canada
25 Mar 11
Where I live, it's normal for both members of a couple to do housework. Women do tend to end up responsible for more of it, that's true, but men still cook, clean, and help with the children or pets. My husband, and most of my male friends, cooks, vacuums, and does some tidying.
Then again, in most couples I know either both partners work or they have more than one child, so there is no way just one person would be able to do all the housework.
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
25 Mar 11
Yes, I'm so proud as well as lucky that my husband also does household chores. He's a very responsible husband. Even if you don't ask him to do some of the work, he volunteers doing some. He's very kind and always tries to check if I'm still okay or not. He's really the best husband for me and I'm sure that I'd like to spend my lifetime with him.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
24 Mar 11
it's really nice from him to find time to help his wive at home...and at the same time is normal. I hate that way of thinking in which women are supposed to do all the work raise kids,go to job and still foucus their atention on the man's needs. we're all equals and if we could help each other why not do it...he shows that he really loves the woman next to him
@jeffreyallen (298)
• United States
24 Mar 11
Well, I dont know any husbands like that, because I dont have any friends that are married lol. But I think it`s nice for a husband to help out his wife. I`m pretty sure a wife wouldnt want to feel like a mother to her husband. Cleaning his stuff up, cooking for him, doing the chores around the house. I know for sure I wanna help out my wife if anything.