The flurry of wedding preparations
By indahfth
@indahfth (11161)
Indonesia
March 24, 2011 7:29pm CST
The flurry of wedding preparations my younger brother, has already begun. I had to go to my parents' house. Because my kids have school, I leave my child at home with his father, and stayed at my parents' house. I was very surprised, my husband does not mind. I am a little relieved, but also worried, because I never leave my child with his father. My mother said, no nothing, and do not need to worry, because just one day.
9 responses
@ifandri82 (144)
• Indonesia
27 Mar 11
Thank you for helping me prepare for my wedding. You are the a sister, who sense to me. I am very lucky, to have a sister like you. I'll keep my marriage well, so as not to disappoint all the family.
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@ifandri82 (144)
• Indonesia
15 Apr 11
Of course, I will always pray, for all the good things, for the family.
@SupermanAlive (91)
• Indonesia
25 Mar 11
How old are your kids? Where is your home? Is it Bantul? How will you prepare for the wedding? Will you cook the meals?
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
25 Mar 11
It is good for fathers to have child care duty once in a while. Then, they understand more of what you do, and it also gives him a chance to bond with the child.
If you were in the U .S., you, as family of the groom, would not have to be responsible for quite as much. It seems that you are footing the whole bill for everything. Here even for a fancy wedding, the groom is only responsible for the bride's ring, lapel flowers for the men in the wedding party, gifts for his groomsmen, and the rehearsal dinner. He also pays the preacher or judge and usually provides transportation. That sounds like a lot, but the bride's family is responsible for everything else, which are all big ticket items.
@edohusnull (195)
• Indonesia
25 Mar 11
Is he your step father of your child?
Are you worry when you get alone with him?
Is your husband ever make a physical abuse to you or your child?
if the answer is "NO", so you no need to worried
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
25 Mar 11
It is a mothers caring and instinct sometimes to worry even if it is the father. When we are not use to leaving our child behind without us we sometimes get so worried and panic for no reason.
It is just one day and you deserve to be in good and happy company, so relax a bit and pray that all goes well and then soon you will be back at home with child and hubby.
Have fun you need that for a day! 
@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
25 Mar 11
I guess I would worry too but for different reasons. I don't think he should mind and all should be okay for the day. Be good for them to have time together.
@Eugene126 (124)
• United States
25 Mar 11
Don't worry to much. You won't be able to focus on the wedding preparation if you're thinking too much. If he's a good father he won't let anything happen to your child.
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