why life is so unfair????

Most of the time life is unkind and it is not of anything we have done. Our first parents, Adam and Eve, rejected rulership by God and chose to side with Satan the devil and that's the main reason life is unpleasant. But it will not always be that way. God has made arrangements to soon put an end to the devil's work. Then, life will be much different for obedient ones.

Do and think of only one thing at a time like this. Which is your priority. Money? Life? Then try to find a solution and focus on this. Don't always blame life, life is whatever you make. Maybe you did not do anything wrong, but you may have approached it from the wrong angle. Try to look widely and find out the solution.

hi i am Rahul from INDIA. i wana tell you that yu tink life is to bad its not tottaly right dear. in all ways of life(love,money etc.) you think life is bad. you have to change your angel of view. then view this world remember one thing never give up. Always think positive and opposite situation you have to think possitive dear.

It may be bad. But the best thing you can do is just stop panicking and focus. You need a clear mind and positive thinking. Oh and gotta have faith. Sh*t happens. It`s inevitable. Here`s a promising quote to remember. "It`s not about what happens to you in life... It`s about how you handle what happens to you in life." Keep your head up. If you`re still breathing, you`r fine.

Hi there, Life indeed is a voyage that takes you through so many ups and downs. You tend to worry when downs come and tend to be overwhelmed when ups come. It is very essential to prioritize things that you want to do in your life. Stop for a while and think! What is it you want with your life. Do you want to earn lots of money? Do you want to give all your time to your love? Do you want to learn the skills of balancing both these things? Stop being negative and ponder upon what positive changes can you bring to your life. Don't worry, your troubles will end if you remain positive.

life's a b***h -.- i'm sure its only a bad period in your live... Sometimes lives changes like the weather... Talking to people who can solve your problem surely helps!! Hope for you that it gonna get better

time will change have hope.In everyones life this sitation comes whya nd what might be the reason the person suffering onlyu will knw.Just have patience time will change and u will get answers for ur questions.

The only thing i can think of, as to why you are having a tuff time right now is you are about to have a break thought. Nothing in life is easy. I would suggest to take it day by day, and just look for the better and not for the worst. I know, you may be saying easier said then done. But if your pride is in the way of asking for help, you might not get any. Good Luck with everything.

You wonder right? Life is really unfair? Think about what happens it all happens to undeservedly ... ... when you think everything goes perfectly and suddenly stopped ... when you like something and suddenly you do not have permission ... you hope ... Stay away and sometimes you wonder ... I can fly? Although the wings of your choice on anyone else's. Can I shine? You can have light but prefer to take someone else ... your life ... All I gave you away ... just how did all the happiness. Life has ups and downs ... it's sadistic torture you ... shows you how to get ahead is elated but not too much ... then it takes you all the happiness to turn into an agony. I pick up at the sky but until then you slam the depths of Earth. But another question arises: "Why do we fall? The answer is simple: "To get up again." Whatever gave you life, however it take to fight for what you learn ... learn not to give in ... if you want to fly but not your apripile but if you prefer to shine the light of someone else ... do not you do not resign as You do not take them ... fight ... Do not quit!

Hehe,that's life,my friend!and i believe that some day my son must ask such a question. You are so young and unexperienced.in fact there are so many problems ahead outside your view,but you have to resolve them properly,you have to do your best to confront them and cannot avoid any as long as you live on the earth.Keep it up and come on!

Hi friend, I totally agree with you that life is very unfair.Someone is the rich man's child.Bur someone is not.But we have a pair of hands can create miracles.As long as we know the use and timing.We have chance to alter destiny.Haha~ Good luck,have a nice day.!

Im sorry to hear things dont seem to bright for you. LIfe is here to teach us all lessons, and we hopefully learn from these lessons. Its always easier for other people to give their opinions and advice, but they are the ones that dont have to experience. I unfortunately dont nearly have all the answers, but I can tell you this: Life is one big balancing act. One thing will balance another thing out. Life comes at us and it involves the good and the bad. I think alot of people make the mistake of expecting only the best and when the bad rears its ugly head we go into a spin and wonder why life is unfair. The only way is to deal with it with a positive outlook...like I said before, easier said than done. Dont look at this as life being unfair, look at it as alesson. Learn. Be observant and I promise you the answer IS out there. And remember life is a balance of good and bad, you might be dealing with the bad now but if you stay true to yourself, be positive and I assure you the good WILL come. Here is a saying that I hold very close to me: "When you cant change the direction of the wind, adjust your sails." I truely hope that you find happiness within this adversity. Believe in yourself and be greatful you have friends and family to turn to. Imagine having to go through rough patches without them! They are truely your strength :)

Why are the people in this world so cruel?Will there ever be a day that goes by that we're not worrying which bill we gotta pay next or when our paycheck will hit the bank?Will there ever be a day when those snot nosed spoiled rich kids don't get it all?

Life is unfair, but God is merciful and gracious. :) Just believe and pray. everything happens for a reason .

Before I decided to answer your question, I viewed your profile to check on your age. This way, I can be able to answer your query appropriately for your age. I have several questions though. Why you tell that life is unfair at your age? I mean, have you done so much to say that? You are so young and there are still bigger and tougher things you will encounter. At your young age, you are already complaining. My dear, if you face challenges at your young age, God is testing you how far you can go. Life is not unfair actually because it is us making it unfair. Perhaps, the proper term is "ironic" and not "unfair". You have to understand that any result of what we do is an outcome of our decision and choice. If you are in a wrong path, that means you made a wrong decision and choice. Indeed, you cannot change the past, but you can do something for the present and future. Every challenge or trial is a life lesson. Think of the deeper view. Ask yourself, "Why are you in that kind of situation?"...You may perhaps did not think that you have done wrong, but is it for you? There are things that we desire, which sometimes are not God's plan for us. Think and meditate.

Firstly you are still quite young. And you know the things you mentioned you will have difficulties on and off during your lifetime. You need to look things being that someone may have a harder time in life than you yet they continue and maybe even not complain. There will always be someone who will have something better than you, it's just part of life. However, if you want something better you need to get a strategy and find a way to get there or close to it. On the other hand it takes character to also accept your current situation and work with what you have not work against it. I think everyone feels life is unfair in one aspect or several. We all struggle with something. The person(s) you may compare yourself to may different things that put strain on their life but because you do not walk in their shoes you have no idea. Look to see the things you do have going for you not what you don't and what you can do to get closer to things being the way you want it. And it's ok to accept your life as it is for the grass is not always greener on the other side.

I ask the same question all the time because I am a generous giving person. I have always shared my apartment with family because I feel blessed to have a place to stay but at the end I'm behind on my bills and no one offers to help. They just get up and leave me with the problem when I start to feel down about it because they don't want to be around me when I feel that away. I have a love in my life but like everyone else you know that love is suppose to be sweet and of course you have your problems but what if your love is sour and you have problems. I keep my faith in this though because I do believe we will make it to where we want to be if we try but its getting there thats bothering me and moneywise my life feels like a whirlpool I help anyone anytime I can. I sit back and think about the things I have done in life to try to pin point where the karma would come from and if karma has came around and was two times worse already shouldn't it get better after my karma comes around and I learn a lesson from it? lol I wonder what have I done wrong also all the time and I haven't came to a grand conclusion that I deserve this.