Stop Saying STOP......
By xien2xien
@xien2xien (1382)
Philippines
March 25, 2011 2:34am CST
I get irritate this morning with my boyfriend, i'm so tired last night and have no enough sleep. He calls me early in the morning and confront me of last night, i can't barely understand him all i recognize is he just keep saying stop to whatever it is i'm doing and he keeps on preventing me from everything that makes me happy, i know he's just being protective and very concerned with me but i'm tired of being stop from almost everything.... So i said CAN YOU PLEASE STOP SAYING STOP..... do you encounter this kind of situation?
9 responses
@jennyze (7028)
• Indonesia
25 Mar 11
Which boyfriend is this, cause I remember reading you have three now.
Nothing like this however similar. I slept very later around 2 am and at 6am I was woken up by my brother's call. He had to repeat his words slowly and several times cause they just did not registered in my brain. I kept saying: ha? ha?
@xien2xien (1382)
• Philippines
25 Mar 11
my second one wahahaha, you make me smile with what you've wrote.... thanks for remembering my topic and i wish you won't hate me :) . he irritates me. he's accusing me for last night, i know i got drunk and what the hell i met him when i was drunk. i totally hates him
@xien2xien (1382)
• Philippines
28 Mar 11
don't be confused i'm just getting close of having my freedom, wahahaha
@Janexiao (173)
• China
29 Mar 11
Sometimes, when people are not in a good mood, they may hurt other people's feelings who close to them. I think it would be better if you have a heart-to-heart talk with your boyfriend. Then you can understand each other better. I hope you two can have a happy life, my friend.
@xien2xien (1382)
• Philippines
30 Mar 11
i guess for now we won't have a happy life nor a happy ending with each other cause i'm planning to break up with him
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
25 Mar 11
Since I had a girlfriend I had so little time clubbing with friends. It's because she gets jealous of some of my girl-friends and, of course, the girls I might meet in the club. Clubbing is fun but I'd rather be banned on one but stay with my girlfriend than get a free pass. She's been everything I had ever wanted. Of course, no one is perfect but she's perfect in my eyes.
@xien2xien (1382)
• Philippines
30 Mar 11
that's really nice, it's your choice to follow your partners decision, and it's my choice to break all my boyfriend's rule. Hey continue being a good guy and love your lady the best way you can keep it up
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
25 Mar 11
Since I had a girlfriend I had so little time clubbing with friends. It's because she gets jealous of some of my girl-friends and, of course, the girls I might meet in the club. Clubbing is fun but I'd rather be banned on one but stay with my girlfriend than get a free pass. She's been everything I had ever wanted. Of course, no one is perfect but she's perfect in my eyes.
@xien2xien (1382)
• Philippines
28 Mar 11
wow that was good.. continue loving her and enjoy with her present, besides it's your choice to follow her orders, in my case it's my choice to disobey, but life is cool we can have our own choice
@tessa9 (1085)
• Philippines
28 Mar 11
I kinda know what you are saying. I think you have issues with your boyfriend. You should talk to him about this before everything escalates. No one should ever keep you from your happiness. He is probably just being protective just like you said so say your side so both of you can find a compromise that won't make anyone miserable.
@xien2xien (1382)
• Philippines
30 Mar 11
i told him that a thousand times before, i mean i'm always saying that i'm not keeping him off to whatever makes him happy, it's his own choice to stop everything he likes just to please me and offer me his full time, let me say i'm not stopping him from anything cause back at me i don't wanna be stopped also
@jeffreyallen (298)
• United States
26 Mar 11
Umm.. maybe he`s telling you to stop cheating? lol no jk. If he knew, I think it`d be a different conversation. What exactly is he telling you to stop? I dont really understand. Can you elaborate more please?
@xien2xien (1382)
• Philippines
28 Mar 11
he's telling me to stop drinking with friends, stop smoking, even stop hanging out with them, i hate him cause i happen to know him while we are having bonding and i was drinking and smoking when he met me, and still he court me and now he's trying to stop me from whoever i am when i met him
@raviteja_ravi84 (2620)
• India
25 Mar 11
Well i know what you mean. I am sometimes very protective of my girlfriend also and she confronted me saying that she needed some space. I gave her whatever she wanted an gave her some freedom now but i am still a bit nervous about what she would do if she was given extra freedom. I am always nervous about her dunno why. I want her to be mine only and i get very jealous if i see her with another guy!
Cheers!
@xien2xien (1382)
• Philippines
25 Mar 11
Suspecting someone is a sign that you don't trust your girlfriend, you can't love her if you don't trust her.. if you really love her let her be and just love her for who she really was and not what you made her for you to love her, my boyfriend is sick before he met me i was smoking and drinking but then he court me and now he's always saying stop to everything that is BEING me before he met me, i wonder why did he loves me when he hates almost everything that i am.
@sweetme329 (500)
• Australia
25 Mar 11
Sometimes it gets on my nerves too when my partner becomes over protective and tries to teach me things. But when i think about it calmly i only come to the conclusion that he wants good for me and doesn't know how to convey it to me properly. I think you should tell your boyfriend how you feel about him being over protective and tell him that you know he is just concerned but it bothers you a lot.
Have a nice day!
@xien2xien (1382)
• Philippines
25 Mar 11
i can't tell if he is really concerned with me, all i know is that he is concerned with himself and he makes me change for himself to to satisfy his ego and his preferences.... i understand your situation maybe you're bf is overprotected with you and you are to him,,, when i love this guy i didn't do anything to change him because i love him just the way he is, and now i hate him when i met him he said he loves my everything but now he's really getting my nerves he's changing almost everything in me when he first met me :(
@sashakiddo (1102)
• United States
25 Mar 11
It seems like this is an either or situation. Either things go his way or they go your way. Or you both keep arguing or disagreeing.
He seems to want to change you, and he can't have it any other way. I can relate because I am guilty of doing this to my boyfriend. Some people need a faithful person, others need one who will let them fool around. When I tell my boyfriend "stop" I mean it seriously because I will not tolerate him playing with other girls.
If he keeps going back to it, I eventually will break up with him or he will break up with me.
Either or.