gays and lesbian
By enruschew
@enruschew (247)
Malaysia
March 26, 2011 1:26am CST
How do you feel about gays and lesbians? Do you take it as a normal relationship or disgusting? Will you accept if your family member is one of it and will you blessing them?
12 responses
@sweetme329 (500)
• Australia
26 Mar 11
I have absolutely no problem with someone being a gay or lesbian. They are also human beings and they have their own feelings. i do agree that their attraction is against nature's rule but they cannot help it. I absolutely loathe people who make fun of gay and lesbians. They are a part of our society and we should accept them. Yes, i would aaccept it if any of my family member is not straight.
@enruschew (247)
• Malaysia
26 Mar 11
I can see that you are a open-minded person. I had seen people mostly from western countries are doing well in this kind of problem, they are willing accept it but for residents in eastern countries, it's difficult especially for the old people to accept them as part of the society. This might be due to the traditional culture...do you have any suggestion in dealing with the situation in a traditional family?
@Matpunk85 (1066)
• Italy
26 Mar 11
It's a cultural problem. I think that all religions consider homosexuality a wrong thing and don't tolerate people with this orientation. I think that this culture is very negative because change the people mind and for this especially old people don't accept gays. I think tolerance is one of the first needs to live in peace in this world.
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@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
26 Mar 11
I think Gay/Lesbian relationship is normal. I don't hate them coz I do have a few gay friends and they're one of the best people I've ever came across. I don't have a lesbian friend though.
Ok and for the second part, I would wish my son/daughter to be straight but yeah if somehow they are gay/lesbian, I would give them all my love, after all they are my children and they need love.
Have a wonderful day.
@mermaidivy (15394)
• United States
20 Apr 11
My husband's mother is a lesbian so I cannot not accept her, I find it very strange and I don't like her to be around so much, feel strange to listen to her story about her girlfriend... just awkward.
@enruschew (247)
• Malaysia
24 May 11
Yeah, this is it. We do not mean to hate it and sometimes tried to understand them; the thing is that...really awkward.
@orang13 (723)
• Philippines
8 May 11
Honestly speaking I am not into it. I find them disgusting but I cannot just close my heart to them. I know they are just humans like us and like us they are not perfect too. I guess most of them did not want it to end that way, others tried to stop it and control it but well I guess they can't. Ofcourse, what's the use of the quote "Be yourself" if they will not show up right? If i'll get one to be a family member, I will definitely accept it. But one thing I just have to advice them, "don't get dirty". They should know their limits so that society must not punish them.
@enruschew (247)
• Malaysia
24 May 11
h mm... you're right; they are just human, just like us. For some cases, I did see that some open-minded homosexual posting on their "close" pictures on the web...and many people argued on that...as what I can see, many people still cannot accept it.
@pujileksana (175)
• Indonesia
26 Mar 11
Honestly, I hate gays or lesbian. They are very disgusting. God create humans in different gender to be a couple. So, why we resist God rule?
@enruschew (247)
• Malaysia
26 Mar 11
But how are we gonna do when we found out that we fall in love with people that have same gender as us? Like a normal couple, boy and girl fall in love with no reason. And my friend felt so guilty just because people around saying she was wrong!
@mizziexoxo (145)
• Canada
15 May 11
i love the gay community. i have friends who are gay and they are great.we have such good times together. if anyone in my family was gay id of course accept them and love them because there still the same person as they were before they came out. being straight or gay make no difference to me.
@toniganzon (72553)
• Philippines
26 Mar 11
I have cousins who are gays. Don't know if I have lesbian cousins. My uncle beat my cousin up when he was about 6 or 7 years old for acting like a lady. My uncle thought he did his best to change his attitude but he still failed. Now he has just come to accept that he can't do anything about that anymore. My cousin was never considered an outcast and we treat him like a normal human being. I have nothing against gays and in fact I have openly told my husband about the what ifs in our son's case. We both said we would have to accept it but of course we would be disappointed. We are trying our best though to be careful with the way we treat him and we are mindful of his environment.
I'm not scared if he would become one someday but I'm praying that he won't!
I have a lot of gay friends and I enjoy their company.
@enruschew (247)
• Malaysia
26 Mar 11
Yes toni...one of my lesbian friend said she was afraid to letting the others know about her situation, she scared friends will taught her as abnormal person. Moreover, she had grow up in traditional family and her parents might not able to accept the truth. I'm okay with her and still treat her as friend but how am I suppose to help her? She can't keep the secret forever.
@dadindine (230)
• Philippines
26 Mar 11
Normal, of course! Will I accept them in the family, of course as long as they haven't done anything wrong, crimes, hurting other people and such. As a matter of fact, most of my friends are gays and since I met them, my life has been more fun!
@enruschew (247)
• Malaysia
26 Mar 11
Wow...then your friends must be happy to have a friend just like you. I'm not very familiar with this kind of circle yet but got a lesbian friend used to be quite nice. She only told me she like girls few days ago and...I was shock but now it's okay for me. Thanks for sharing! Have a nice day.
@scorpio04 (84)
• Philippines
26 Mar 11
I am not against relationship between gays and lesbians .Some of my friends are lesbian and gays and they tell me that they not control what they feel for someone.Yes i will accept if my family member is one of them..
@enruschew (247)
• Malaysia
26 Mar 11
Yah...I'm okay with my lesbian friends as well. She had told me that it wasn't her wants to fall in love with girls and it is something out of control. I seen it as a normal boys and girls relationship; just like when a girl fall in love with a guy, there is no reason for why we love somebody right? But the thing is that sometimes she's still afraid to let others know especially her parents. Any suggestions on how to help her?
@enruschew (247)
• Malaysia
26 Mar 11
Yah, I agree with you. Hmm...maybe I can accept it but it'll be difficult for my parents.
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
21 Mar 12
I have a lot of friends which is lesbian and gays but i really like them even they are like that and they are just really true to their self. I also have a nephew which is lesbian and we accept her even she is lesbian because we want her to see happy. There is nothing wrong in being like that. I also love being with gays because they can make me laugh, as in super laugh.
@vampielust (4)
• Singapore
6 Jun 12
I am a lesbian in a relationship and there is nothing wrong by being a lesbian, gay. Love is universal and love has no bounds or restriction....
