Why are these people seen as the sexiest?

March 26, 2011 4:58am CST
Hi all, Ok, often when we watch television many things are always seemed to be based on celebrities, what they are doing, who they are with, what good and bad things they do or have done, etc. There just seems to be so much out there. Also though many times it gets mentioned about how sexy a person is, everything to the way they wear their hair, the way they are dressed, the make-up they wear etc. It does also really come down to their looks more than anything aswel as the shape of their body, many times there have been so many comments and many times there can be programmes like the 10 20 sexiest women/men on television, or this can be put into a newspaper or magazine etc. So i ask you, what really makes these people the sexiest people around? Also like to find out who you think is the sexiest. For most people it does seem to be all about looks. I would rather find someone with a good heart that has my vote, the ones that are sexy on the inside. But i guess being attractive and having a great body is a big thing to many people. I like people like shania twain, or jane seymour, people who can look good without much effort, there are way too many people that put too much effort into trying to look good, i do like the plain look as women don't need to put as much make-up on as they do, some look like clowns, . I have heard many women say they find people like johnny depp, tom cruise, george clooney, brad pitt, etc sexy. Many men say that jessica alba, eva mendes, cheryl cole, etc sexy. So mylotters, what do you think is sexy and why?
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27 Mar 11
well i am probably the only woman that DOES'NT think brad pitt and david beckham are sexy. i like ray liotta and jon bon jovi. can anyone tell me why people think skin and bone is sexy, although there are men out there that like a bit of meat on a woman. when you meat someone we automatically judge them and decide whether we like them or not without getting to know someone. alot of the time its not what they look like its whats inside.
29 Mar 11
Hi titchy1231, I don't know about that titchy, i think there does seem to be quite a few women out there that do not find people like brad pitt and david beckham attractive, however, many many women do find them attractive. I see wher you are coming from on the skin and bone. It seems that many models want to be as thin as a rake, like be a size 6, it does not look sexy at all, i feel like shoving a big mac and fries in front of them and telling them to enjoy. Some people go to extreme lengths to stay so slim but for me it is not a nice look at all, to see the bone structure turns me off not on. I guess that many people do pre-judge, but as you say, it is far better to get to know a person rather to start judging what they are like just by looking at them, you are right in the fact that it is what is on the inside that counts, that is the pure inner beauty of a person, but to also be attractive on the outside is just a bonus. Thankyou so very much for your response to this topic.
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30 Mar 11
I guess that something has now worked for you as you do now state that you used to be skinny. Does this mean that you have now put weight on? If so do you feel better for this? Do you feel more comfortable now with the way you look compared to the way you did look? There are many many people out there that do want to be like a stick, to be so very very thin, it does not appeal to me and for some strange reason they seem to think that it is sexy, for me i like to be able to grab hold of something, not to be a case of fragile handle with care as i could break her being so thin. It is not a good look at all really, however opinions do vary and so people may like this look, for me it just does not look healthy at all.
29 Mar 11
i used to be really skinny and hated it and i tried for years to put on weight but nothing worked. i dont know why women want to be be like models when most of our bodies are not meant to be like that, yet they do everything they can to get like that, its wrong.
@patgalca (18366)
• Orangeville, Ontario
26 Mar 11
It's like you said about their characteristics, not physical appeal. Tom Cruise and Brad Pitt are in my bad books for life. They broke up their marriages to be with another woman. That is NOT sexy to me. I do not know what people see in Johnny Depp. George Clooney, yeah, he's pretty sexy physically and internally. I like a guy who can sing and/or dance and have a sense of humour. I think that is really sexy. Maybe it's because the first time I saw my husband he was dancing (step-dancing for an audience). Donny Osmond, John Travolta and Tim McGraw fall in these categories. Dancers, singers, good-looking and all round good people. I used to think Scott Baio was hot. Now that I know his personality better I don't quite think so. Being a woman, I can't tell who is sexy. I recently tried to think who was the most beautiful woman and just couldn't come up with a name. Of course I'm not ogling them so I'm sure, given time, I could come up with someone. Right now I feel Jennifer Aniston is pretty and seems to have a great personality. I like Sandra Bullock. She's not phony. Looks aren't all that makes someone sexy. I feel a combination of all the traits I mentioned (including charitable) make a person sexy.
26 Mar 11
Hi patgalca, Hope your well. Yes, it is far from sexy of the marriage break ups that both tom cruise and brad pitt did, not good at all. I do love a good sense of humour with people, life can be so easy with people like this. I do like john travolta, a great guy in many different ways. I do love sandra bullock, great at what she does and the way she presents herself, her plain looks that are naatural is gorgeous, she seems to be an honest caring woman. There is something that i can't put my finger on as to why i am not keen on jennifer aniston. Someone else who i find plain looking and highly attractive without having to try to be that way is kate winslet, very talented and i find highly attractive and overall seems a genuinely nice honest person, also she seems to be a great mother. I agree that it is not just looks fromm theri face and body, but many other things. To me it is always what is on the inside of a person that attracts me to them. Thankyou so very much for your response to this topic.
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