is love simple?
By sashachensha
@sashachensha (4)
China
March 27, 2011 6:28am CST
i meet a guy for more than two years in china,when i was in internship,he was travelling ,and we just chat about 4 hours,then we didnt meet anymore,but we keep in touch for 1 year,then he came again,we travelled together in summer,thats like fairy tale,but i like him,and sevearl months later he came for intership,but we are in different cities,he is beijing,im in shenzhen,i dont want to leave here,because im too young to face that he would leave after half year,i want to stablize my caree here,we still in long distance relationship,in winter we met again and spent spring festival ,even met my parents,i love him more,because that i want to spend my rest of my life with him,but he said we wont have future,he has to go back for study and work,he can not promise to stay with me,but why this two years ,i didnt recognize,if love is simple,why we could not just chase and follow heart,i am thinking because we didnt meet at right timing so that we would not be together,i just dont want to regrate when i am getting old.
however,what can i do,be realistic and quit,or all was dream?
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3 responses
@niluhputu960 (98)
• Indonesia
27 Mar 11
I don't know what's the meaning of love. When i was in school i fell in love with someone and i ready to do anything for him. He treat me well but sometimes can be other person, when he was angry he always shout with dirty languages, pushed me or did something that hurt me. But i love him so much and i don't care what he had done to me. Few years later i broke up with him, and i found someone who really loves me so much, really taking care of me. My feeling with my new boyfriend is different, his love and caring makes makes me adore him so much. Love is complicated and it's just depend on the person how you determine it.
@sashachensha (4)
• China
29 Mar 11
we need to be awake when we are in love,but all depends on what are you thinking.nobody can tell you who is the wrong person,its our own descion and life,thanks,you inspired me,wish you happy.
@prime74j (38)
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28 Mar 11
the question is love simple, in the eyes of mankind it is complicated but in the eyes of God yes it is simple. because for us humans the word love is define according to our own standards - that is setting with conditions - but in God the word love is unconditional. in your situation, it is better to own each other before going to the next level. you much be thankful that you experience how to love.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
27 Mar 11
Love can be the simplest of emotions. yet it can also be the most complicated one. It is just what what we put into it and take out of it that makes it simple or complex.