My Brother-in Law

Hi toni This is love and it is this way. I believe your brother in law and his gf are younger and quite childish - this is why the keep deleting the records and the readding them up once they have patched up. I know I should not but still - I hope they become more careful as I have seen sometimes, such things just are blown out of proprtion and make things really bad.

Actually I had breakups with my ex boyfriend couple of times too. Four I guess. But we somehow always gt back together. Sometimes it was him, sometimes me who was trying to make things better. Anyway each time it did hurt a lot but the pain couldn't be compared to the first time we broke up. It was awful the first time. The last time was pretty bad too, and then we never got back together but i still loved him for like a long time.

Funny thing though as it is exactly the same predicament my eldest is going through. broke up and make up, i think four times. My son would seek advice from me, and told him over and over again for four times that if things don't work out then let go... but as always, a few days later he will come up to me with the news that they're back together again and again and again... what i realized is that my son is really in love with this girl as everytime i see them break up, he would be silent, teary-eyed and not himself... even if it's the girl's fault, he would humble himself and would have the initiative to reconcile, and every time they got back, i can see him "very happy" and with that i rest my case..

Hi dear, I think the break apart would be ideal for the long life. If they get together again, with no reason and no time, they will do the same again and I don’t think they can be good any more if they had a number of break apart. Life is so silly for each of them and I don’t know who’s to be blamed for it, as I don’t know the reason behind it. Earlier, I had a school friend they were in an affair when all are school children. As and when they grow up, there were so much of different opinions when the fact come to know from each other’s family. They tried to separate for 2-3 years and all were against it and even both of them thought they could not marry forever. I made several attempts to make understand them and their portent separately as I was good knowledge about their parents. Even though they decided to part the ways, my continuous talks and discussion made fruitful and finally they got married. All of them were so thankful to me in those days and now they are settled in US. But the sad thing, the girl don’t like me anymore and I don’t know why? May be I have helped a lot to be together and I don’t think anyone else tried to do for it. So, why I said is that – if your brother-in-law don’t want to go for the girl, stop it forever. But I think they both still love too much and that is the reason why they come in contact one they are cool with their mood. Thank-s

Maybe your brother-in-law does those breaking-ups to test his girlfriend,or there's really some trouble between them but your brother-in-law is still appealing to the girl and she never wants to give up him...

Most of the girls like that type of guy, which is difficult to get, and challenging, usually the guy know how to play his card to makes the girls really adore him so much. I was a victim before, i had a boyfriend, he called me when he wants, but when i called him sometimes he picked the phone sometimes not, depending on his mood, whenever i got angry, he will start to text me with love messaging, saying how much he loves me and can't live without me, but again when the situation back to normal he repeat again same thing. I got tired and sick with him, i couldn't think anymore. Finally i decide to finished it all, it's difficult, but it's for my best. Your brother in law girlfriend must love him so much, and dare to do anything for him or there are possibilities if she run after something.

i don't know either why the girl always trying to make things work out with the two of them, i usually don't do that because i strictly believe that woman are special so man should us the way woman should be treated... i really don't know what's wrong with that girl.