Is it okay to be friend with your husbands ex-mistress?

Philippines
March 28, 2011 6:52pm CST
It was the most difficult time of my marriage and it was a test of love, faith and forgiveness and I am glad we are over it now. My marriage is now going stronger than ever. And After all these years, I saw the girls FB account and I wonder if it is okay to be friends with her... What do you think?
3 responses
13 Apr 11
In my opinion, if you truly forgiven her and your husband it's not bad to accept her request as a friend but still depends on you if you still have this uncomfortable feeling you still have the right to decline.
• United States
4 Apr 11
Hi there, I am sorry that you had to go through that but I am glad everything is resolved and that everything with you and your husband is going well. If I was in your position, regardless I would NOT add your husbands ex-mistress. She was the reason why you and your husband had problems, imagine what you had to go through, why would you want her to be apart of your life again? Especially since if you add her on Facebook that would allow her to view your page, photos, everything!! I would not!! Let her be & you be :)
@whengcat (1457)
• Philippines
29 Mar 11
I think its not a good idea. I won't do it either because whether you like it or not, memories from the past will only haunt you.