I feel so exhausted, can we do it later?

@whengcat (1457)
Philippines
March 28, 2011 8:09pm CST
Is there a time in your relationship when your husband/partner tried to get intimate with you but you refused because you feel so exhausted and want to go to sleep already?
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
29 Mar 11
Well, because both my husband and i have a whole day job, we always find the weekdays tiring to do it. But of course there are days when he would be in the mood for it, but i would refuse out of tiredness and would just compromise that we do it in the morning when we feel rested. That way, we get to enjoy it both.
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@whengcat (1457)
• Philippines
29 Mar 11
I felt so guilty though whenever I refused him.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
29 Mar 11
Don't be. Just explain it to him in a loving way and compromise when you can do it. Me, i sometimes joke him while i am already lying down, "okay, if you want then you can do it. . .go . . .come over " But he would laugh and refuse.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
30 May 11
Thanks for the BR whengcat!
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• Romania
18 Nov 11
Yeah, it happens!! Unless you're jobless and you have all the time in the world and all the energy in the world to do whatever you like, it does happen that one of us feels too tired or simply just doesn't feel the mood to go to bed together. No worries, we make sure we make up for this the next time when we really feel the need to ... :)
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• Philippines
20 Jan 12
I haven't experienced this since my boyfriend and I live just 200 meters away from each other. Maybe you just give your partner sometime to rest.
@toyota4k (1208)
• Philippines
29 Mar 11
Of course and it's normal but comes a time when you're not exhausted, the whole night is yours and comes a time when you're exhausted, you feel like it and feel relaxed after....
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• United States
29 Mar 11
yes,we both do that sometimes when one of us wants to,and one of us is tired.there is a time that hubby refused to "do" and there are so many times that i also refused to "do" because of working all day.
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@345042441 (130)
• China
17 Nov 11
There are times when i am in mood while he is not, but most of the time he could meet my requirement though he is very tired. He will only refuse to do it when he gets a cold. If he could not do it i can really understand no matter how much i want.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
1 Dec 11
hi whengcat we all get there at times and my hubby suggested in the morning when we are both rested and its really lovely then as we both enjoy it then, much better than being all tight abd stressed and all tight and exhausted. Most hubbies are pretty good about that. lol