Oh such pain!

Oh dear, I believe this is the result of the loneliness that you had been facing for quite sometime over the past few weeks... I remember the discussions of the Valentines day, then your birthday. Is this the result of the time share that you guys have been missing? Or is it about anything else? Let me know and I can try to find a solution for my dear friemd.

Wow, that's pretty intense. I do know what you're going through, because for the past 3 years I myself have gone through a lot of pain, and really only support of my husband and now Reverend could help, along with my faith in G-d. In my case I had to let go of the situation which was the hardest thing for me to do, and I'm still suffering from it. I see you believe in G-d, how about being brutally honest to Him? For a long time I wasn't totally honest with Him, keeping some thoughts unspoken. But I found it so much easier when I told Him my exact feelings, what my desires were, etc. I was so afraid before he'd be displeased with me, but well, it's the exact opposite effect. So that in itself was emotionally healing for me. Also if you have a priest or rabbi you can talk to you can be assured that everything you say is in strict confidence. They have to, as they're bound by law. They have experience in basic counseling as well as speaking from the perspective of your faith. A medical doctor might be able to refer you to a more advanced form of counseling. When a person is experiencing this much pain that it's physically affecting them, it could lead to some medical issues, so it's best to seek attention as soon as possible. I myself am under a doctor's care and I'm getting better in dealing with my own character, dealing with situations, etc. I hope this can be of some help. I'm concerned for you on this post. Hang in there, ok?

I know what you mean and it sucks! It's like something invisible is crushing your chest and you want to scream and you beg for it to stop and it doesn't. It hurts but you just have to live through it because everything will be okay in the end. If it isn't okay - it's not the end. If there is something you don't like in your life, change it. Simple as that. You don't need to complicate it with the ifs and the buts and the hows. It makes it seem simple and straight forward which makes the change and the actual problem look much less scary!

hello toni, What caused your pain? You have to resolve what caused you pain. You can not moved on from it unless it is being resolved my dear. It's hard to pretend when deep inside you are dying with sadness. First you have to cry it out...scream if it is needed. It will help you released some pain inside. It's not good for your health if you just kept it inside,let go of your emotions it will ease some pain. I hope you will get over with it soon

Hi toni my dear friend, I'm wondering what causes such a pain. I'm sorry I am not so near to keep you company. Just continue praying my friend, God can provide the greatest and ultimate comfort there is, if we would only allow Him to do so. Is it some sort of depression? A disappointment of something? What? You can PM me if you want to discuss it. Be well there my friend. Be strong. May God's hand be upon you.

Hello toniganzon.I have several suggestion for you.First,get help from your family,doctors and your best friend.Second,please tell your family about your problem.Third, do not harm or hurt yourself.Please get help immediately

sometimes life just becomes to much and as we havent dealt with issues when they arise these things can all build up and leave us feeling drastic,i suggest you get some support and even see your gp maybe they will send you to councilling to help you deal with things better.

I had been suffering toothache the last few weeks. One of my teeth is pushing another set causing my gums to bleed and hurt.

So sorry to hear that, my friend! What is it that is giving you emotional pain? Do you have personal problems that you do not know what to do? Ask help from some of your close friends or relatives. It is better to bring it out so that you will feel better. Go out and take a walk, who knows? you might find something that will change your mood today.

Yes... I hope you feel better soon. I think you have the right idea anyway. Look for support from people around you, your family and your friends. Pray. Keep yourself busy, anything that will keep your mind from being idle. Because, more often than not, an idle mind will make you dwell more on the negative thoughts that give you pain...