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Kenya
March 29, 2011 3:45am CST
Like most people, i am conscious of the way in look.Some people, though can be obsessed about their looks and that of others.Some teased those who they think are not good-looking, but what if a person is truly ugly? There is little he/she can do about it.I think a person should not worry over what he can not help.Do you not agree?
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• Philippines
29 Mar 11
hello ron, For me everyone and everything in this world is beautiful it's just how others will take a look on it, who cares is he/she ugly at least he/she has a good heart i know lot of people who claim themselves as a beautiful one but their heart is rotten. Beauty depends on how will you treat others fairly because beauty outside can fade. keep posting happy mylotting
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
29 Mar 11
Sadly often the rotten part inside doesn't show through until we get to know them better and then we get hurt too
• Philippines
29 Mar 11
MysD, That is a down side of being inside
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
29 Mar 11
I think that looks are like chocolates in a box. Often the packaging is beautiful and entices us to buy them and then when we get them home and open themup and see the selecion inside we are so disappointed I try and look clean and presentable but I do not do anything in the way of 'extras'. I am me and as long as feel that my looks are acceptable to wherever I happen to be then I am comfortable. Welcome to mylot ronpimeh and I hope you are going to come back and comment to these responses and further the topic so that this becomes a discussion because then you will be earning for it too
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
29 Mar 11
devijay I would love to help each new user individually but there are so many it would be impossible. I join their topics whenever I can and I try my best to get the message acrose, without scolding, offending or anything negative but just in a friendly manner. I want them ALL to enjoy myLot as much as we all do!
@devijay78 (1573)
• India
29 Mar 11
Hi mysdianait. That was a nice way of clearing the doubt of newbies that we earn for whatever we type and not for only starting discussions.
29 Mar 11
I think we just have to make the most of how we look,there are many more enjoyments in life that we can do without it mattering if we are ugly or not.
• Philippines
29 Mar 11
I knew someone. She was as ugly as hell but she has a good heart. I'm a person who believes that looks is the first thing everyone notices but when I met her it made me think otherwise. Looks isn't everything. If you have good looks, yeah you may attract some people here and there but it won't help you in the long run because we all grow old. Looks disappear but your inner self don't, at least until you die.
@devijay78 (1573)
• India
29 Mar 11
It is very easy for people to say that looks do not matter. But they do matter and that is what is happening in the society. Does not matter which part of the world you are in. But I am a person who gives much importance to the character of the person more than anything else. True that a good looking person attracts much attention of others but when they find out that the person is ugly inside, nobody would like to have that person as their friend. I have many friends who look normal and not so good looking. It does not matter to me as they are good friends and that is what interests me more. And I do know people who are good looking but have ugly hearts and bad characters. I would definitely want to stay clear of them any all times.
@devijay78 (1573)
• India
29 Mar 11
Forgot to answer the original question. Am not very unfortunate looking. And I know how to dress to turn heads. And I have a handsome husband too who is obsessed with his looks. But I do not bother much with mine as I like to dress simple most of the time and what attracts others to me is my smile and expressive face. Dressing well only adds to it.
@xien2xien (1382)
• Philippines
29 Mar 11
i'm not worried about the way i look, i wanted to make my self to the simplest image i can make myself. i don't wear fancy dress even put some make up.. simplicity is beauty and you can't argue about that.... there are people who are in born pretty and there were some who looks pretty with their make up on.
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
29 Mar 11
Dear friend, I feel as a social being we are happy when society accept us that too in most friendly and helping way that do not hurt our emotions. I feel as a social individual social acceptance is liked by all normal humans.