How would you react if your partner had contaminated you with a STD ?

Sounds like all of them were idiots sweetie. I will definately strangle my partner if he gave me STD. That's the lowest you can go apart from AIDS.

If Francis the first was right, this means my partner is now an idiot. I don't flatter myself, if you knew my partner, you would know I am right. Assuming that he was not an idiot and he had contaminated me with a STD ... let me think. I think first I'd be sad. Then, I'd be ashamed because I should go to see a doctor for the proper treatment. Then... I'd be sad again. Then I'd worry about him where will he sleep tonight and tomorrow night and the next week nights and the next month's nights...

Hi. topffer. I would be upset and furious. I would also get out of a relationship with him too. It is very obvious that he is an unfaithful man. And he is dirty too. I know that I would lose all trust and love in him.

I think this would devastate me. Not only would it brng medical concern, but the lack of trust in the relationship would wither away too. it would be hard to know where to turn for comfort in such a case. The world would certainly be a bit more gray!

That he got it somewhere else and it means that he cheated on me on numerous times and I would want to get out.

Oh gosh it would not only be devastating but a flat out betrayal. My initial and final reaction would be to go. Let him go asap, no questions and or explanations asked but I have to go. I have never been unfaithful so I expect the exact treatment/care in return. King or no king. lol.

tell him to get his butt to the doctor for starters...

I will spank that bloody a*ss

I guess I'll get myself medicated if ever. That's really not my gf's fault, if ever. I'll get both of us cured from it even if it requires too much money.

Yes I would get angry. Moreover if she has passed it on to me.

Well as the saying goes we learn from our mistakes but this is the kind of mistake that has no way to straighten up. I will for sure although it is too late leave my partner. I will be accompanied by my tears and fears to go on because I can not be like others who has been contaminated that strongly revealed themselves to set an example of bravery, give encouragement and awareness to the disease,to give courage to continue their life. But of course I admire them,no crying over spilled milk.

if my partner will contaminate me. I will cut off his organ so that he behaves himself and not contaminate any other girl. I will also look for ways to heal myself from the disease.

I'll definitely get angry because I know that he's using other woman beside me. That's a sign of infidelity...That will be the start of a great war.

i would leave him and totally make him miss me and put him through hell like he did me

Well, over the yrs. this is one thing that people who are promiscuous outside of marriage take a chance with. There is even still the chance of Aids etc. out there as well. I know back in the day when I did not care I can remember this happening to people I knew, and it was scary. Personally if you want to protect yourself the most, wait until you're married to someone and the make sure you both have been checked if there was a livid past beforehand as well.

Of course, i would really get mad at her and I will never love her anymore. The thing is, when she has STD it only means that she did it with someone else and it's cheating. That is the baddest thing that a person would do to his/her partner.

i will raise hell when that will happen!

Hi topffer, Well that was a different time and now it is a different time. STD in STD in the past was not easy to cure as it is now not a big deal. If I detected that I have been contaminated with an STD I would go to the go to the doctor and get cured and then asked my mistress why on earth she indulged in such activity.

Hi topffer Thank God that was a legend. But yes, there are quite many possibilities that this can happen in the real world where many people can do anything for money and power. Revenge plays a major for many people and they can go to any extent to accomplish and have their revenge... and make lives miserable. Now to your question's answer - If the contamination is done and I am infected, the first thing that needs to be done is the medication. The discussions may follow later and I see no point in having a fight over it as it is already done. The discussions can reveal the intentions and reasons too... and I think we are mature enough not to blow the thing out of proportions by publicizing but trying to resolve with patience and for the better of both

This is an awesome story in my opinion! What comes around goes around, the lesson of karma! I learned something today that sort of relates. There was a finding that the species known as voles are monogamous, and their cousin species whose name I don't remember, was not monogamous. They looked for what could be the cause of the difference and found that the monogamous voles had higher levels of oxytocin. So people then studied how higher levels of oxytocin could make people more attached to their loved ones. They found that giving people oxytocin changed attachment levels from "insecure" attachment to "secure" attachment. Then there was news that the monogamous voles were only monogamous in social attachment. In their other behaviors they were very promiscuous. So, should it matter how much physical love people have with others as long as people are faithful as companions?