Are You Single? Lucky You've Got A Date

Philippines
March 29, 2011 11:33am CST
hello mylotters, A friend of mine send me an sms asking if i am still "SINGLE" and i said yes asked her why?she replied me back telling that she has an officemate Single, Professional, tall and quite handsome i can't help not to laugh out loud because at the end of her sms she said i will set up a BLIND DATE for you i refused it and told her i am too busy to grant her request i am not into it right now, but she is so persitent what she did was gave my number to this guy then the guy started to send me quotes, trying to call me but i don't answer him back then i changed my number i was surprised that my friend gave my number again to this guy and the guy started to send me quotes again and trying to call me so i decided to reply him back i am trying to be polite to him but just can't rid him easily because he is so persistent and i told him i don't like my friend's idea he just said it will be fine and just tell him whenever i am ready to meet him personally . Well i am not mad at my friend whatever her intention is but not now i don't have time for this maybe we need to talk this over and she will pay for what she had done a dinner will do . So if you are a single and your friend will set up a Blind Date for you will you go? or you will just ignore it? HAPPY MYLOTTING!
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9 responses
Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
29 Mar 11
hello bhaby, Are you sure you are not interested? Why not give it a try,it's just a date...a friendly date won't harm you aint? Bring me along with you and ten of our friends (chaperon) Hmnn...but i doubt if the guy is an I****n....i am sure you will say yes without having a second thought
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bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
30 Mar 11
hi jaiho, I am sure about it, i am not teen anymore this kind of thing is not on me I*******???????????? Here you go again that is not true because if he is a Gorilla never mind love yah! happy mylotting
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mylesnarvaez
@mylesnarvaez (5451)
• Philippines
30 Mar 11
i will volunteer to go with jaiho and be one of the 10 chaperons. hehehe we'll check him out for you... if he's fun and yum. lol
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Daddy Neil
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
31 Mar 11
if i am with you now, i will bring my camera and you know what i mean.
mylesnarvaez
@mylesnarvaez (5451)
• Philippines
30 Mar 11
hmmmnnn if you are not receptive to the idea, then don't go on a blind date. hehe it's not as if you'll be tied or cuffed and transported out of your own free will to the date itself. knowing you... you're the type who doesn't like force. lol and another hmmmmmnnnn... assuming i am single, will i go on a blind date set up by a friend? -lol- i'm thinking... it depends on the friend... how reliable this friend is. hahaha just kidding! seriously, i don't do blind dates. it's quite fine in my book to go on a group date and my friend will introduce the guy to me right there and then. and if we hit it off alright, we are the ones to decide if we wanna bring it to another level or another date without the group or whatever. hehe no pressure on either side and just casually hanging out together.
LetranKnight25
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
30 Mar 11
your date could be this one? - Ewww,right?
I think Group date is a good idea too because you would be able to determine if the guy is good or compatible with you. plus, he can't make advances with your other friends hanging around with the both of you as well. blind dates can also lead to crimes of abuse like murder or rape, something that women should avoid now a days
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
1 Apr 11
@ myles, Actually i am beginning to think that my friend is going to set an accidental meet up because she sounds desperate and persistent when i confronted her well if ever that will happen i am going to tell you . thanks for participating happy mylotting
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
1 Apr 11
@ lk I agree with you this is possible to happen that's why i am not into it
LetranKnight25
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
30 Mar 11
I don't know if am good enough with dates anymore. As i recall in the conference, i turned out to be a very boring guy but regards to your discussion, if you don't feel comfortable with it then that's fine Don't allow it because it might just confused or make you irritated for some reason that you're not really up to it. remember that only if you want it that will make such date good or romantic or something.have a nice day
mylesnarvaez
@mylesnarvaez (5451)
• Philippines
30 Mar 11
you're ok. you just need to loosen up a bit and be yourself... like you are in mylot. hehe
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
1 Apr 11
@ Lk, Who said you are a boring guy?as i can recall i still remember some words you've said i caught you smiling at us especially during the fun photo shoot with rberon . You are right i can explode anytime if ever the date will not turn to be good. thanks for participating
sweet_pea
@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
30 Mar 11
Oh dear, a friend didn't offered to set-up me up on a blind date, I offered her myself to set-me up with someone! I just felt I am missing something and I can't wait. I was in my early twenties, with a career, I know I'm pretty but I don't have a love life. Guess, I intimidate men. I never even have a boyfriend at that age! So I ask my friend if she knows someone who would go on a blind date with me. He found me one, a fellow young professor. Well there was no chemistry and we didn't hit it off. So, I guess blind dates are not for me.
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
30 Mar 11
hello sweetpea, Seriously? that is one of the reasons i don't like blind dates because it can be good or bad and besides i am happy now. thanks for participating happy mylotting
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sweet_pea
@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
31 Mar 11
Well I just want to experience how it's like to be in a blind date. I'm confident my friend would not match me to a dangerous person. Maybe someday, it is something that I can tell to my grand kids.
saibal10
@saibal10 (89)
• India
30 Mar 11
You are lucky enough for having such a friend setting a blind date, he or she is thinking for you, fine, but it is a problem for you because in this time when you are busy enough, you should fix time for that, otherwise romaticism will lost under business. Atleast I must rebuke my friend for that not for dating, Make you fit for time and enjoy.
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
1 Apr 11
hello saibal, Yes i am lucky to have a friend like her but setting me up for a blind date i can't call it luck i am too busy now i can't even give more of my time here . thanks for participating happy mylotting keep on posting
senasoftx
@senasoftx (6)
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31 Mar 11
i always enjay being single its depend on our creation
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
1 Apr 11
hi senasoftx, We should enjoy it beside life is too sure. thanks for participating keep posting happy mylotting
asiregar
@asiregar (864)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
30 Mar 11
there may be no harm in trying to get acquainted before anyone knew there could be many things in common
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
1 Apr 11
hello asiregar, It's just i don't comfortable doing this things sometimes blind date can turn into disaster also,. thanks for the response happy mylotting
craigy123456789
@craigy123456789 (1759)
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29 Mar 11
Hi bhabycatch013, Well, i guess that your friend is just looking out for you and possibly knows that you deserve to be happy and with a decent man. However i do feel that she has stretched the friendship bounfries by giving this man your number, twice even. This is something that should not have happened. However if he was a decent man then he would have said to your friend that as much as he may want your number he will wait until you say it is ok for him to have it, so he isn't that great after all is he? If you are interested then you could ask your friend to set something up, but for it to be on your terms. I would certainly make sure that she either repays you by buying you dinner, or by making you dinner, just make sure that she does not bring this guy along, . I have never had this happen to me. I guess that if a friend did do this then i would not be pleased that they have handed out my number, but i guess one date is one date, no point in causing problems, it may go well or it could go horribly wrong, only one way to find out is to go on the date and then i and also the woman i am with could decide together if there will be a next date, i guess outr friends have good intentions, but sometimes they should think before they act.
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
29 Mar 11
hello craigy, Yes the intention was good she told me that she is going to give my number but she cannot wait for my answer well i don't know why she is pushing me i rather go for a group date in the expense of this man . And for sure this cupid friend of mine gone pay a dinner by hook or by crook lol... thanks for participating happy mylotting
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thatgirl13
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
29 Mar 11
Yep I'm single but I don't mind it very much. What I do mind is blind dates. I hate blind dates. I've been to one before and don't want to be in another one ever again. It was so horrible. The guy couldn't stop talking about himself and he was too modest and obnoxious too. I'm never going on blind dates ever again and I would be totally pissed if some of my mates tried to fix me up with someone I don't know.
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
30 Mar 11
hello thatgirl, Actually i am controlling myself not to be piss off because she is a good friend of mine i know that her intention is good but right now i am not into it. Agree with you sometimes blind date turn into disaster . thanks for participating happy mylotting
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