people around you.. a true friend
By vhalen
@vhalen (85)
Philippines
March 30, 2011 4:03am CST
people around you .. you don;t know who will be your friend.. a friend that doesn't appear not only in happiness also in you deep depression. sometimes when u went to a place and u meet someone then u became friends, after you left that place she's not even remember to ask how are you.. how will you find your true friend? and accepts who you are and support you through out..
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@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
29 Sep 11
people around me to have a true friend and then two or three.
true friends who can stand beside me in joy and in sorrow.
friends who are just constantly around me.
everyone wants to have any friends that are to him throughout his life.
it's just wonderful.
nice day!
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
30 Mar 11
You will never know a friend is a true friend until such friendship is tested by fire., if you know what I mean. Friends are easily find but true friends are rare.
Here's a n example. My sister received a text from her so called friend (the message was wrongly sent to her number. It was intended for another person)stating that she (my sister) has a lot of men (she must be referring to her as a flirt) and she further elaborate with a lot of derogatory words.
My sister was shocked because she did not expect to discover this especially coming from that 'friend'. She thought she really was a good friend to her. My sister helped her in everything she needs even giving her some personal stuff and yet this woman bad mouthed her behind her back...
You could have found a real friend or you could have been mislead by a humbug... Who knows?
@jennyze (7028)
• Indonesia
30 Mar 11
From long time conversation and years of proven friendship. It's not easy, many will come as friends and many will just prove they are not the ones we look for. Time and experiences will let us know who our true friends are. Especially in those time of sadness, hardship and losing someone.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
30 Mar 11
My only way to determine a true friend is when I myself am experiencing issues. This way I can tell which direction the true friend really is. Not for comfort, but more to see if the true friend is unconditional.
My way of defining true friendship is one who can be unconditional in telling me right from wrong. I do not expect a friend to always agree, I prefer a friend to tell me when I am wrong and why.
I don't feel when can seek out a true friend, more so it simply happening and not part of a selection process.
@edsss17 (4394)
• Philippines
30 Mar 11
Hi vhalen,
I have found my best and true friend way way back 2004.. She's everything that a friend needs! She's sweet, understanding, loving and very easy to talk with!
We are away from each other at the moment.. But not because of our distance we will end our friendship! What will be the use of technology right?
Until now, we are still updated of what's going on with our lives!
@xien2xien (1382)
• Philippines
30 Mar 11
i guess you don't need to find true friend, a true friend comes when you need him most, and friend will give you everything that you need, even if it's life even if it's his life, a friend who will go on through the Years, I have a bestfriend, she stays with me through my ups and downs, she'll be my friend whatever the future bring, love strengthens us, as friends
@astommacrissandra (85)
• Philippines
30 Mar 11
I guess it takes a lot of time, experience, deep relationship to say that a friend is a true friend. Nowadays, its so hard to find a true friend. But you yourself can say that one is a true friend. You feel that this person is true to you, honest to you. she or he slaps you on your face and say, hey, you better shut up.. I mean a true friend stabs you in front and not at your back.
@dznurani (160)
• Indonesia
30 Mar 11
I don't have many friends but I know that some of them are true friends. I have this special friend but we're just far in different city and our relationship is just fine. we're like sisters. I can tell her everything and she'll help me through the bad times. when I start a friendship to someone is based on a true heart and healthy relationship.. :)