bitter cause she's not married and I am...
By p3ks626
@p3ks626 (6538)
Philippines
March 30, 2011 8:22am CST
I dont understand what with some Exes that they cant seem to accept that there ex already got married and they didnt. I know its not true for most of us but there are some who are like this who seem to be bitter because they didnt want their ex to be happy and the worse thing they do is make the wife or husband of the ex, feel inadequate.
7 responses
@juniorstringbean08 (455)
• Philippines
3 Apr 11
yes that's very true. i know plenty of ex-couples who encounter the same thing... i don't know, they seem to put bitterness at the center of their lives. and most people compare the partner of their ex to themselves, like they feel superior than that of the new partner. 
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
3 Apr 11
They are being superior but they are not in the right place to do it. Sorry for them, really. I just found out that the ex I was talking about in my post anxiously wants to get married already so she can show her ex that she can actually do something like that as well. hahaha! she is so funny doing that as if someone is trying to compete with her or something.
• Philippines
31 Mar 11
she/he just don't want you to be happy, unless he/she is happy too. Unless he/she still saw you happy he/she will not stop being bitter from you.
There are just some people who are selfish.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
31 Mar 11
I think that's the exact word to describe this kind of people, SELFISH! I think there will come a time that they would have to repay for all the craziness that they are doing and that they will exactly know how it feels like if something that they do will be done to them.
@AdalieM (1134)
• United States
30 Mar 11
Letting go is something that most of us don't like to do. Even if you are no longer with that person and many years have gone by, they still have feelings for you. I guess depends on the relationship, if it was a good one, you will always want to be a part of it. But the thing is,when your ex has moved on and you didn't, that's when things start to get ugly, I am the type of person that let's go no matter how painful it is, it might sound crazy, but when I see my exes have moved on it gives me strength, if they can move on so can I. Unfortunately some people don't see it that way because they never heal in the first place, and are not ever going to heal if they feel some kind of resentment towards their ex. I feel sorry for this people, because while they are moping and feeling bitter because they are not with the ONE they chose, they could be out with somebody new and have a better relationship than the previous before.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
30 Mar 11
I think they do that because they never moved on and still have some feelings somewhere for the ex. That's not a good thing though. Referring to my past experience, I've learned that loving someone who'll never love you back is just a waste of your time and hurts you like s**t. I've been there, done that, moved on. Now my ex is no one to me, though we used to be very good friends before we got into a relationship.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
31 Mar 11
I think we really have to understand our limitations. I mean, once a relationship is over, there are things that you cant do anymore and you have to deal with it. I had exes too and after our relationship, that was it. I never tried to contact them or their families and it really doesnt bother me at all.
@misc11 (384)
• United States
30 Mar 11
There are so many situations like that today, and it is so sad for the person doing it. I always wonder why they waste to much time, effort, and dignity trying to make the other person miserable. Why don't they spent the energy on moving and finding someone else, invest their energy in a new relationship. I always wonder what they are thinking and why they do not think of this. At least this is your ex, and not you!
@babyEj (1522)
• Philippines
4 Apr 11
Sometimes a relationship that didn't have a clear closure usually has this impact to the person involved. She might didn't receive the enlightenment of their closure. Well, if the marriage is founded strongly it wont be destroyed no matter what she does.
