Friends causing problems...
By HansonFan
@HansonFan (1653)
United States
March 30, 2011 12:14pm CST
I have a friend and I love her dearly. But she is trying to split up me and our other friend. They were friends first and then C met me in college and I eventually met A. A and I went to Disney World last year...C couldn't go because of a wedding and work. I absolutely loved it and decided to move there. Offered to room with A and C if either or both wanted to come. A immediately said yes, but she has to graduate college first. C eventually said yes too and also after she graduated. However, C graduates this summer...A will be who knows how long. She has completed 6 classes in 4 years!!! I don't know whats wrong with her but C and I are leaving this summer for Florida and A keeps trying to sabotage our friendship and our move. I am sorry that we have to leave her behind...but I am not going to waste my life here waiting on her to get her act together and finally finish school. And on top of that she lives off of her savings and hasn't had a job in three years!! I don't know what to do with her!!
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2 responses
@Bibispark2 (195)
• Nigeria
30 Mar 11
she s feeling bad that she will be left out...she might look backward but dont show disgust to her...still show her love even after u get to florida...make her understand,you still like her and you are still her friend....remember she might be of help to u someday..no matter how backward someone might be...WHAT GOES AROUND,COMES AROUND...just be neutral between the two of them,and dont allow C or A you prefer one to another...be neutral
@HansonFan (1653)
• United States
31 Mar 11
Im more than neutral. I treat them both the same. They are fighting over me but I just spend one day off with one of them and the other day off with the other. Its annoying but I dont want us to become enemies like we are in grade school or something. A is being the most childish but C is not too far behind her. Its a mess but hopefully when C and I get to Florida I can convince C to actually talk to A and not just try to forget she exists.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
30 Mar 11
Yeah I have to agree that you need to go full speed ahead, thus far you have done all you can to get her to straighten up her act and to no avail.
But proceeding with you plans hopefully this will get her to wake up and be a bit more responsible. Not moving forward and allowing her to remain this way is part of enabling her.
If she does not straighten up unfortunately she will at some point learn the hard way. Best of luck and hope you a success with your move!
@HansonFan (1653)
• United States
31 Mar 11
Thank you! And I certainly hope she does get her act together. If not she is going to be in a world of hurt when her parents die...she relies on them for everything still.
