I doubt,She is playing with me, Should I go for second option
By jagjit273
@jagjit273 (1754)
India
March 30, 2011 12:53pm CST
Continuing Further from my old discussion,( Is she playing with or testing me)
Today,I called her up,again,She picked up the phone and talked to me, I thank god for that.
I was so much worried about her for the last 2 days,couldn't sleep,and when she talked with me It was a normal thing for her,She said I was so much busy with work as it was yearly closing in office that I couldn't get online.Though she Apologizes later , But after talking to her It looked to me that she does'nt care that much for me, as Much I do.
Many thoughts came to my mind in these two days, I try to mention them as follows:-
1, It was my birthday on 27th march, I called her up and told her about that,She told me that she will call me up at night, But she didn't do that, I was very much angry about that,It came to my mind that How can she forget or go to sleep without talking to me at night( though it may look like a childish thought)But It did come to my mind,
2, On 28th March,she didn't come online all day, as she used to get online,I was so upset,I waited like fools till evening, at night,I rang her up,she just put down my call,I couldn't sleep all night, wondering whats the matter with her,has she got some one else better than me.
3, On 29th, she was not online, same as last day,It came to my mind that she may be in trouble, maybe her elder sister would have told her parents about our affair and they would have put an estoppel on her outer life ,like restricting her from going to office, grabbed her cellphone from her,they would have been looking out a suitable match for her.I could not sleep that night too.
4, 30th march, Lastly it came to my mind that she may not have met with an accident or any kind of mis happening.
After a Lot of confusion and mixed thoughts,I some how gathered some courage to take the risk of calling her up tonight, she picked up the phone and told me that she just arrived at home from office,When I asked about her well being she said she's alright, and when I asked her that why she didn't call me up or picked up my phone, she simply said she maybe busy or would have gone to sleep, thats why,
Now from all the above, I want to know all your people's valuable view's that She I continue with her and give her more time, or look out for some one else or any other option,
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5 responses
@jennyze (7028)
• Indonesia
31 Mar 11
It'slike that she does not care for you anymore. Maybe you should have to get a courage once more and ask her if she want to continue her relationship with you. She maybe s deciding how to tell you that she is not interested anymore, so if you have a courage to ask her, she may tell you the truth. That way, you don't have to wonder what is she really feeling for you now. And you can move on with your life and hopefully find a better one next time.
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@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
31 Mar 11
Thanks for your valuable advice I will ask her whats she thinks about me
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@kalav56 (11464)
• India
31 Mar 11
You have not even seen this girl.SHe is only an internet contact. From all that you have written it is pretty obvious that she does not reciprocate the intensity of your feelings.Has she ever told you anything about your relationship getting on a serious footing? I feel you have to just keep silent and get on with our life.Let her call you if she is interested.Going after her like this is just giving her opportunity to think too much of herself. Do you have parents?
Why are you confused and unsure of yourself?
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
31 Mar 11
She has sent me her pics.Yes she does told me that she feels me with her.
@geonelynn (369)
• Philippines
30 Mar 11
i think she is not as interested on you as you are to her. as i girl, if i am interested or if i like a certain guy i would find a million ways just to connect with him. what your girl is doing is that she is making a millions excuses just so she can't get in touch with you.
it is pretty obvious that she is taking you for granted. sorry about this but this is what i think.
if i like you, i would do everything within my power just to stay in touch with you. :)
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
31 Mar 11
Thanks for your Valuable Response, and You should not be sorry For anything,You are very right about her behavior and From last night I am thinking about changing my feelings towards her,As I used to think about her from my heart.Now I am thinking about My brain also or rather brain only.
I should look out for some other options too as I have in my hand now.I wont call her up ,lets see what she do,
Thanks once again.
@mj_aye (45)
• Philippines
31 Mar 11
in my own understanding, and as the way i see it, the girl is facing a lot of problems, confusions maybe. i suggest you talk to her. but make your conversation as nice, simple yet concise as ever. the actions that the girl shows are signs that she isn't happy anymore. i think she wants to say through her actions that you both need to talk about your relationship already. Just ask her what you want to know but also never forget to tell her what you really felt inside.. c:
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