to choose the one you love, or the one loves you
By betty110
@betty110 (66)
China
March 30, 2011 5:09pm CST
As the title, how to choose that? If you love someone, it is an amazing feeling that you want to see him everyday and wish you could be together forever. But maybe he does not like you as much as you do. And you will feel depressed sometimes. And he does not cares you much.
Howerev, if there is someone loves you. He would take you seriously and cares about everything you do. You will feel a little bored but most of the time, you are very happy to stay with him. And you have a feeling of he is a member of your family. Your talking is just so natural and you feel you have known him for a long time. But maybe you do not have a strong feeling, such as a quick heart beating when you see him. But you really feel warm in your deep heart. It is really so complicated to tell.
4 responses
@mj_aye (45)
• Philippines
31 Mar 11
if you are faced with this question, you would really have a hard time choosing. its good that we can choose neither of the two. if you choose the one you love, then you are being selfish. you only looked on your self's happiness, contentment and pleasure. on the other hand, if you choose the one who loves you, you are being untrue, dishonest and you fool only yourself. Jesus taught us to be like Him. He lead us and become a model for all of us to follow. He never taught us to be selfish or to be dishonest. if you are faced with this question, it simply means the one God has prepared for you is neither the two. for true love is never insists on its own way. it is kind and it is patient. c:
@betty110 (66)
• China
1 Apr 11
My dear friend, thank you for your reply. Yes, you are right. Choose the one you love is selfish but choose the one love you is dishonest. And it is a cheat. Love should be the mutural trust with each other. And both of them should have love. I think I really have to consider about that before get married. Thank you very much.
@MLBajanaC (8)
• Philippines
31 Mar 11
for me it's better to be with someone that loves you than you love...because you don't know if he/she loves you in return...so I prefer to with someone that loves me because I'm sure that he/she wont leave me...i can teach my heart to love him back...
@kquiming (2997)
• Philippines
30 Mar 11
i'm glad i didn't ever had to choose...because the one i loved was the one who loved me too... and i think no one has to do any choosing neither... i think we all just have to wait for the two conditions to be met: i love him, and he loves me..something like that. i know though that this is easier said than done..and it's not an easy task to wait for the right person or the right relationship to come.... but when it does, i could swear, it's gonna be all worth it.
@rsmegan (13)
• China
31 Mar 11
TO choose the one you love, or choose the one loves you,that's really a question.I remembered I read some words,"choose the one you love to love,while choose the one loves you to marry".It do make some sense.But I think it's all up to you.If you'd like to be in charge of everything in your love,maybe it's better for you to choose the one you love.I'm the right guy who'd like to choose the one I love.I like to be initiative,and I do not want to wait.It's harder for me to receive than give.And another part,I always think the things that I get by my owm pursuit is much more reliable than the things I got by offering.Mabe I'm just a little girl who's lacking a sense of security.
