What do you think about a cheater wife?

I have an aunt who cheated on her husband. I lived with them when I was in my college years. When I discovered it I confronted her. She said that her husband cheated first and she caught him. She said that she's just trying to get even.

Cheating is horrible, does not matter if it is done by a wife, a husband or even when the couple is not yet married, it is still cheating. Nothing can stop it unless the wife wants to stop it. Cheating is both physical and psychological, too complicated to stop unless someone knows he reason why.

I don't think you can stop a wife from cheating is husband but you can prevent a wife to cheat her husband. I guess you have to look for a wife material that has a good moral values instilled in her, someone who is a one-man woman who loves you so much, who will move heaven and earth just to be with you. On the other hand, you being the husband should give your wife the care, love, tenderness that she need and the idea that you need her so much. I guess, preventing cheating by either partner in a relationship depends on how you carry your relationship. If anybody of you two have been neglecting the other, there will come a time that the other one will look for someone to turn to.

Cheating whether done by the wife and or husband is such a bad betrayal. I don't think anyone is forced and or it sort of happens at all. It is a choice and a bad one at that. If only cheaters consider the pain they would cause before they act upon cheating maybe they would re-consider. I don't believe a wife cheating on her husband is considered a good wife. A good wife is one that love and honors their husband and of course this is a lack of respect. No one can stop anyone from doing what they choose, it is up to the individual not to do or do what they do. If they love someone enough maybe a husband can get them to stop. But based on my own experiences I could not get my ex to stop, no matter what I said or did.

Everyone else is right it is bad to cheat regardless husband or man but it seem worse to me for a woman to do it because we are known for being faithful and I believe a woman should be even in the case of her husband cheating. If you can't forgive remove yourself but I don't think that she should go out and get revenge. A woman is prized in this area because its easier for us to keep secrets be discreet and get away with somethings. We are even more better at being devote, committed and faithful.

The word cheating alone is not a good thing at all. It's a sin. Either way you look at it, even if the husband or worse, the wife does it, it's not good. I think, if someone cheats, he/she doesn't deserve a second chance. Of course, it's a case to case basis but for me, second chances are only a sign of giving him/her a second chance of hurting you again. Everyone must be faithful. But I know, for most, it's a hard thing to do. I just hope people will realize that cheating someone hurts the other party and it's not good to hurt someone. :)

In my opinion, it depends on what kind things she cheated you , if not very important ,please just forger, good to your family,and trust me .

Well, it is not a disease so you can't stop it, it's just human behavior. Of course she is not a good wife, for that she would have to be loyal as she promised. She could be as sweet as pie but once she decides to go that way, there's no turning back, cheaters don't have excuses in my opinion. Same goes for husbands as well, equally. Now, if the husband forgives her for whatever reason, that's another different story. Everybody has their own reasons to do what they do.

people cheat because of different reason,some wife cheat because their husband are too busy for them.Are maybe cheating,but not all husband are wife cheat.Because am married and i have never cheat on my husband. Why get married if you know that your going to cheat ?If a husband are wife cheat ,that's mean the relationship is not working out for one are the other reasons. In a relationship a partner must take their vows seriously,if their is a problem in the relationship they need to talk about the problem an getting it solve immediately.

Hi. aerous. I don't mean to disrespect a wife that cheats on her husband. But in my opinion, she is an downright home wrecker! I have seen a movie about a woman cheating on her husband. She was living a double life. It was very sad because her husband really loved her. She just used him like a dog. I would never cheat on my husband. If I feel like I may do something like this, I will leave him alone completely alone.

Cheating is the ultimate betrayal no matter if it is wife or husband. The thing about it is that it's usually not the other partner's fault per say. It is something in the cheater that makes them stray. I can't begin to make excuses for why someone would commit the betrayal..there really aren't any good excuses. Everyone knows going in to it that someone will be hurt.

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Cheating is always not good. But it depend on difference situations. Special in spouse relationship!

Sometimes life is very unfair, why? because if the man cheat his wife for having another woman people says it's just right but if the wife cheat her husband it is not right. But to your question, my answer of course is, if u were on that shoes of a cheater wife, don't you think you do it without any valid reason? of course I did not, maybe she do it because the husband neglect his obligation, general obligation to be exact. Because how insane a wife to do a thing like this. Reputation of a man when he cheat his wife is lighter but the reputation of wife is heaver if she do cheat her husband. And, trust is much harder to regain for the cheater wife. No matter who cheat it should be fair people in judging both.

In any relationship, be it of that amongst friends or that amongst husband and wife, full faith,complete understanding and trust are the vital points to make it successful.Cheating, whether it is a wife whocheats on her husband or a husband who cheats on his wife, is not acceptable and should be avoided at all costs.If either of them cheats then that relationship has no meaning and is bound to fail as even if they try to hide it from each other, one day or the other they will get caught and then the relationship will fall apart. Tiger Woods is the prime example of what has happened to his personal life as he cheated on his wife.Once the trust is gone then however hard they may try to make amends, the suspicion will always remain at the back of the mind and then the couple will never be able to lead a harmonious life together.

What do I think about a cheating wife? well I think its messed up no matter if its a husband or a wife because cheating is cheating a wife should not get a free pass just because shes female neither should a husband. I think cheating is never good and whom ever cheats on there spouse needs to work on stopping the behavior, or maybe they should not be married if they want to live like an unmarried person. marriage is supposed to be about love honesty and being loyal and faithful not hurting the one you love so if a person cant be honest or faithful don't get married because marriage wont make someone suddenly be these things.

that question also applies to..what about cheating husbands? reasons why husbands cheat also applies to why wives cheat. Either way, they cheat because something is lacking with their spouses. And i do not think of it in gender way.. but it applies to both

hello aerous, Cheating no matter what the reason is,still cheating. I know there are reason/s why someone can do such thing,but,it's not to justify the reason,cheating is never an answer. If one is not satisfied with any of the main factors (s*x,love,money etc) why not sit and have a talk. If can not resolved things,separate,divorce and look/search for someone who can satisfy whatever he/she looks for. Rather than stay in a relationship of hypocrisy(pretending),betrayal and no-self respect (immorality)sleeping bed to bed. How to stop it? I am not sure you can stop him/her. It's a matter of self discipline (character)and self respect. Just my views on this topic. have a good day ...so long my friend..where have u been huh?