critics for you

@indahfth (11161)
Indonesia
March 30, 2011 11:33pm CST
what the critics for you? Is that a bad accident? As an unexpected disaster, or ... symbol of self-destruction? Can anyone think of criticism, like receiving praise?
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12 responses
• United States
31 Mar 11
Critics depending on how it is used for me can be good and bad to a sense. See there is constructive criticism which basically is opinions/advice that can be helpful and room for improvement. Then there is criticism where as it can be bad because it is someone saying something bad based on their views and not taking into account my own views.
@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
31 Mar 11
Hi HWG, there was a time that someone critics me just because she/he dislike me. when this kind of critics come, i just shut and quiet but i believe that when the critics come from someone who dislike me that is a true critics
• United States
31 Mar 11
Awwh sorry to hear that some people felt compelled to place unwarranted opinions. So true if they dislike us then they opinions are hurtful and not to stoop to their level I too stayed quiet and let them be. If it is someone who likes us then we take as if they were caring enough to help us.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
31 Mar 11
Criticism from people who do not like us, only makes the heart sick. Because, surely that person, looking for our mistakes. If the criticism comes from people who like us, will surely give criticism that makes us better people.
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
1 Apr 11
I'm not sure that I understand your question. Can you give me an example? Are you comparing criticism with praise?
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@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
2 Apr 11
I think I understand. It would depend who the critic was and how the criticism was offered. My husband used to criticize in such a way that my feelings would be hurt. This hasn't happened in a long time, though . Either he has become more careful about what he says and how he says it, or I've developed a tougher skin.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
1 Apr 11
I ask, what is your opinion about the criticism. If you are in the criticism, whether to be a disaster for you, or as a sign of your self-destruction? Is there anyone who can accept criticism, such as receiving an award? Usually people would feel proud if they received an award, but if you accept criticism, whether it can accept with pride?
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
3 Apr 11
hi indahfth, when i get criticized, my ego is touched. but of course, i have to take it positively. i ask myself, why they have labeled me with something like that; do i need to change my ways? i find ways to work on it so that they can see my effort in improving where i fail. its not good to be receiving always praises. we also need criticism to improve. ann
@ifandri82 (144)
• Indonesia
28 Apr 11
Criticism is sometimes very painful for me. I'll think about criticism from others devoted to me. Especially criticism from people who love me.
@luxlyangels (1286)
2 Aug 12
Symbol of self destruction. Very funny. That may just be the right word for quantifying them. A wise man once said, let critics be, critics would always be critics, and we would always be their god.lol
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
2 Aug 12
Sometimes, some people, feel failure, because has been criticized. And the criticism they get, making him destroyed.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
6 Apr 11
hi, critics for me is good,because you can learn from it and could be the the way of improvement of your self from the criticism of others.
@celticeagle (168478)
• Boise, Idaho
31 Mar 11
Yes, criticism can be like praise. Someone can give you a great critique and if you take it to heart it can be the praise that you need to turn your life around. It really depends on where your head is at and what you intend to do with your life. A good counseling in self awareness may be of help.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
31 Mar 11
Criticism may not be pleasent but it does mean someone took time to see what you did and that is better then being ignored or not noticed at all.
@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
31 Mar 11
critics make me sad, i don't deny this. it means that i have still weakness in my personality. i know that it is hard to be perfect. realize that i am not perfect and can't make other happy always makes me sad
@johnpillai (2082)
• Germany
31 Mar 11
There were days that critics made me sad sad. But not now. Most of the critic made me laugh. I just wipe them away just removing sand after sitting on a sea shore. The critics make me think. I like critics than praise.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
31 Mar 11
If anyone critics on me I never angry and I am positive women I think critics is not a matter only it is a good thing they are remembering me means how is important me for them so he/she talking about me with anybody. Criticism is not always take in negative way some time you take a positive way then you will never hurt.
@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
1 Apr 11
Criticism makes me feel weak, but sometimes it is good for us because in that way we can know ourselves through others who we are and we can change for the better, but there are as well criticism that aren't good like those who are in the neighborhood who doens't know anything than to observe and criticize others.